Steve Toelupe - Ment 4 More

Steve Toelupe - Ment 4 More I have two amazing daughters Nekea and Danusia who have had a huge impact in turning my life around for the best.

๐Ÿ™‹๐Ÿฝโ€โ™‚๏ธ helping high-functioning men who disconnect, shut down and stuck become more calm, clear, confident and grounded ๐Ÿซ‚๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ๐Ÿ’ฏ take back control and come home to themselves again ๐ŸŒฌโ˜ฎ๏ธ๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿฝ They have been my inspiration in various roles I have previously held in the education and health sectors. I also have a loving and kind-hearted partner Rachel who I choose to 'Do Life With'. Pretty awesome friends, fa

mily, communities...endless opportunities and possibilities to Grow, Develop, Invent, Reinvent, and Expand...

I am very grateful for the people I am blessed to share my life with, the many challenges/opportunities I have received to help me grow, and make me stronger. Dedicating and loving my commitment I have made to teaching, mentoring and coaching in education, personal development, health and wellbeing spaces. Sharing the Love and Joy of Life with others to Live the Best Lives We Can Possibly Live. Give Your Dreams A Chance...
Grow Your Greatness...It Becomes You! Life is Now, Your Best is Now, You are Now...

Thank you,
Steve Toelupe

I used to wake up dysregulated as a kid...and didn't know why! ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿฝ๐™€๐™ซ๐™š๐™ง๐™ฎ๐™ฉ๐™๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ'๐™จ ๐™๐™–๐™ฅ๐™ฅ๐™š๐™ฃ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™ฉ๐™๐™ง๐™ค๐™ช๐™œ๐™ ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช...๐™–๐™จ ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช!๐Ÿคš๐Ÿฝ ๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™ค๐™ฅ ๐™๐™ค๐™ก...
16/04/2026

I used to wake up dysregulated as a kid...
and didn't know why! ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿฝ

๐™€๐™ซ๐™š๐™ง๐™ฎ๐™ฉ๐™๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ'๐™จ ๐™๐™–๐™ฅ๐™ฅ๐™š๐™ฃ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™ฉ๐™๐™ง๐™ค๐™ช๐™œ๐™ ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช...
๐™–๐™จ ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช!
๐Ÿคš๐Ÿฝ ๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™ค๐™ฅ ๐™๐™ค๐™ก๐™™๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™ค๐™ฃ
- to your past story
- what doesn't serve you
- who you're not...

I used to wake up dysregulated as a kid...
and remember when I was studying psychology
in my mid-tweeties recalling in a textbook and a motivational leader memorable quotes:

"Your brain is shaped by what you rest your
mind on"

"What your mind believes your body manifest"

"When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change"
Dr Wayne Dyer

and thinking most of my childhood I'd been
going to bed in a state of fear, insecurity or
uncertainty etc

My mind hadn't been resting at all, and my brain activated while (resting/sleeping) in survival
processing memories, events etc and my body
still in a state of feeling anxious waking up even before I could think about it ๐Ÿฅบ it all started to
make sense...

Again ๐Ÿ‘จโ€๐Ÿ‘ง fatherhood was the catalyst, and my
childhood made more sense to see life through another lense of my daughter (a child) along
with my Mindfulness practices ie a beginner's
mind. To see things "as if, for the first time) that created more shifts in perspective and a new
way of being in the world I could turn everything around ๐Ÿ’ก one habit, one day at a time...

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๐Ÿง๐Ÿฝโ€โ™‚๏ธ Your view (perspective) of
yourself
other's
the world..can change everything!

Your world of relationships:
how you see yourself
other people
interactions with
technology
food
situations
events..your role
in your own experience
Energy
๐Ÿ™‹๐Ÿฝ what you call
"My Life...living in the now!"

๐Ÿชž ๐™‹๐™ค๐™ฌ๐™š๐™ง ๐™ฉ๐™ค ๐˜พ๐™๐™ค๐™ค๐™จ๐™š
How you see yourself
Who Shows Up...?

Proofs in the practice
๐Ÿ™†๐Ÿฝ ๐™๐™๐™š ๐™‚๐™ง๐™ค๐™ช๐™ฃ๐™™๐™š๐™™ ๐™ˆ๐™–๐™ฃ Method

Keep it simple
Keep it real ๐Ÿ’ฏ
Keep showing up...



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15/04/2026

๐Ÿฏ ๐™ฅ๐™–๐™ฉ๐™ฉ๐™š๐™ง๐™ฃ๐™จ ๐™ ๐™š๐™š๐™ฅ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช ๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™ช๐™˜๐™  ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿฝ
(๐™–๐™ฃ๐™™ ๐™๐™ค๐™ฌ ๐™ฉ๐™ค ๐™—๐™ง๐™š๐™–๐™  ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š๐™ข)

This is exactly what I had to learn
becoming:
a solo dad
parent educator
mindfulness facilitator
men's and father mentor
NLP/coach blah blah
..and what I coach now

Pattern 1 ๐Ÿ”„
๐™‡๐™ž๐™ซ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™ž๐™ฃ ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช๐™ง ๐™๐™š๐™–๐™™ ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™š๐™–๐™™ ๐™ค๐™› ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช๐™ง ๐™—๐™ค๐™™๐™ฎ

You're always thinking..analyzing
- trying to figure it out ๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿฝ

But the more you think..the more stuck you feel

I was the same..constantly in my head
- disconnected from what I
was actually feeling ๐Ÿ™‡

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๐˜ฝ๐™ง๐™š๐™–๐™  ๐™ž๐™ฉ:
Stop trying to think your way out

Start with this:
โธ๏ธ pause
๐ŸŒฌ take a deep breath
๐Ÿซ‚ drop your attention into your body

"What am I actually feeling right now?"

That's where the real work starts
one ๐Ÿค๐Ÿฝ small change...

๐Ÿ™‹๐Ÿฝโ€โ™‚๏ธ ๐™‹๐™ค๐™ฌ๐™š๐™ง ๐™ฉ๐™ค ๐˜พ๐™๐™ค๐™ค๐™จ๐™š
Who Shows Up

๐Ÿ™†๐Ÿฝ ๐™๐™๐™š ๐™‚๐™ง๐™ค๐™ช๐™ฃ๐™™๐™š๐™™ ๐™ˆ๐™–๐™ฃ Method

Keep it simple
Keep it real ๐Ÿ’ฏ
Keep showing up...



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๐Ÿง๐Ÿฝโ€โ™‚๏ธ ๐™๐™๐™š ๐™…๐™ค๐™ฎ "๐™ค๐™› ๐™—๐™š๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ" you...When you take a deep breathe in...allow your breath to travel throughout your whole body ...
14/04/2026

๐Ÿง๐Ÿฝโ€โ™‚๏ธ ๐™๐™๐™š ๐™…๐™ค๐™ฎ "๐™ค๐™› ๐™—๐™š๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ" you...

When you take a deep breathe in...
allow your breath to travel throughout
your whole body to your third eye

โธ๏ธ hold...
..and ๐ŸŒฌ breath out as
slow as you can throughout
your whole body into the earth

you access the inner wellbeing within
you...

โ˜ฎ๏ธ which has always been
there, within you

Life is now, you are always now

Have a awesome Wednesday peeps ๐Ÿซ‚..be well! ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ

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How would a more
Clear
Calm
Confident version
of you start their day...?

๐Ÿง๐Ÿฝโ€โ™‚๏ธ ๐™‹๐™ค๐™ฌ๐™š๐™ง ๐™ฉ๐™ค ๐˜พ๐™๐™ค๐™ค๐™จ๐™š
Who Shows Up...

๐Ÿ™†๐Ÿฝ ๐™๐™๐™š ๐™‚๐™ง๐™ค๐™ช๐™ฃ๐™™๐™š๐™™ ๐™ˆ๐™–๐™ฃ Method

Keep it simple
Keep it real ๐Ÿ’ฏ
Keep showing up...



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๐™„ ๐™ฌ๐™–๐™จ๐™ฃ'๐™ฉ ๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™ช๐™˜๐™  ๐™—๐™š๐™˜๐™–๐™ช๐™จ๐™š ๐™ก๐™ž๐™›๐™š'๐™จ ๐™๐™–๐™ง๐™™ ๐Ÿง‘๐Ÿพ..๐™„ ๐™ฌ๐™–๐™จ ๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™ช๐™˜๐™  ๐™—๐™š๐™˜๐™–๐™ช๐™จ๐™š ๐™„ ๐™ฌ๐™–๐™จ ๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™ก๐™ก ๐™˜๐™–๐™ง๐™ง๐™ฎ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™ฉ๐™๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ๐™จ ๐™„ ๐™๐™–๐™ซ๐™š๐™ฃ'๐™ฉ ๐™ก๐™š๐™ฉ ๐™œ๐™ค ๐™ค๐™› ๐Ÿ’กThis is wher...
14/04/2026

๐™„ ๐™ฌ๐™–๐™จ๐™ฃ'๐™ฉ ๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™ช๐™˜๐™  ๐™—๐™š๐™˜๐™–๐™ช๐™จ๐™š ๐™ก๐™ž๐™›๐™š'๐™จ ๐™๐™–๐™ง๐™™ ๐Ÿง‘๐Ÿพ
..๐™„ ๐™ฌ๐™–๐™จ ๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™ช๐™˜๐™  ๐™—๐™š๐™˜๐™–๐™ช๐™จ๐™š ๐™„ ๐™ฌ๐™–๐™จ ๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™ก๐™ก ๐™˜๐™–๐™ง๐™ง๐™ฎ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™ฉ๐™๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ๐™จ ๐™„ ๐™๐™–๐™ซ๐™š๐™ฃ'๐™ฉ ๐™ก๐™š๐™ฉ ๐™œ๐™ค ๐™ค๐™› ๐Ÿ’ก

This is where most men are I work with ๐Ÿ™Ž๐Ÿผ

1. The need to handle everything alone
- you learned early to deal with it yourself ..so you still don't open up
- you shut down ๐Ÿ™‡

Let it go:
You don't need to do this on your own
anymore...start speaking up
๐Ÿค๐Ÿฝ even a little

2. Old emotional weight you've never processed
Stuff you pushed down, ignored, moved past..but never actually dealt with ๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿฝ

It's still there showing up as tension, frustration
disconnection

Let it go:
Stop avoiding it. Sit "lean in" be with it. Feel it..that's how it moves

3. The pressure to always be in control
You feel like you always got to hold it together ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿฝ

So you suppress, overthink, and put walls up

Let it go:
You don't need to control everything..just learn how to handle whats coming up

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You're not broken..you're just holding onto patterns that
are keeping you shut down โธ๏ธ

๐ŸŒฌ and ๐Ÿง๐Ÿฝโ€โ™‚๏ธ let go of that...
and you start moving forward again

๐™‹๐™ค๐™ฌ๐™š๐™ง ๐™ฉ๐™ค ๐˜พ๐™๐™ค๐™ค๐™จ๐™š ๐Ÿซ‚
Who Shows Up...

๐Ÿ™†๐Ÿฝ ๐™๐™๐™š ๐™‚๐™ง๐™ค๐™ช๐™ฃ๐™™๐™š๐™™ ๐™ˆ๐™–๐™ฃ Method

"What's one ๐Ÿค๐Ÿฝ small thing you
can let go today?" holding you back...

Keep it simple
Keep it real ๐Ÿ’ฏ
Keep showing up...



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๐˜ฝ๐™š๐™˜๐™ค๐™ข๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™– ๐™จ๐™ค๐™ก๐™ค ๐™›๐™–๐™ฉ๐™๐™š๐™ง ๐™ฌ๐™–๐™จ ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š๐™ง๐™–๐™ฅ๐™ฎ ๐™›๐™ค๐™ง ๐™ข๐™š...๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ what I really needed to turn my life around!which changed everything..for...
13/04/2026

๐˜ฝ๐™š๐™˜๐™ค๐™ข๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™– ๐™จ๐™ค๐™ก๐™ค ๐™›๐™–๐™ฉ๐™๐™š๐™ง ๐™ฌ๐™–๐™จ ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š๐™ง๐™–๐™ฅ๐™ฎ ๐™›๐™ค๐™ง ๐™ข๐™š...

๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ what I really needed to turn my life around!
which changed everything..for the best!

29 years on...
who I'm here to become
๐ŸŽฌ Who Shows Up
๐Ÿง๐Ÿฝโ€โ™‚๏ธ ๐™‹๐™ค๐™ฌ๐™š๐™ง ๐™ฉ๐™ค ๐˜พ๐™๐™ค๐™ค๐™จ๐™š ๐Ÿซ‚

Health
Healing
Happiness
Love...

๐Ÿ™†๐Ÿฝ ๐™๐™๐™š ๐™‚๐™ง๐™ค๐™ช๐™ฃ๐™™๐™š๐™™ ๐™ˆ๐™–๐™ฃ
From the Inside Out

Keep it simple
Keep it real ๐Ÿ’ฏ
Keep showing up...




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10/04/2026

๐Ÿ™‹๐Ÿฝโ€โ™‚๏ธ ๐™ˆ๐™ค๐™ง๐™š ๐™๐™ค๐™ช๐™จ๐™š ๐™จ๐™ž๐™ฉ๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™ซ๐™ž๐™—๐™š๐™จ ๐™ฌ๐™ž๐™ฉ๐™ ๐™จ๐™ค๐™ช๐™ก๐™ข๐™–๐™ฉ๐™š
Rachel Maughan

Meet:

๐Ÿฉ Lucy
๐Ÿˆโ€โฌ› Ruby
๐Ÿˆ Ivy and
๐Ÿข๐Ÿข the turtles
(not sure they have names?) from

๐Ÿก Merrimac...
Have the best day!

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Stay tunned for more house
sitting vibes and nomad journey...

Be well!
๐Ÿ™†๐Ÿฝ ๐™๐™๐™š ๐™‚๐™ง๐™ค๐™ช๐™ฃ๐™™๐™š๐™™ ๐™ˆ๐™–๐™ฃ

Keep it simple
Keep it real ๐Ÿ’ฏ
Keep showing up...



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