15/12/2025
🎄 Why Holidays Feel So Big for Children 🎄
The holiday season can be exciting—but also overwhelming for children. From a neuroaffirming perspective, children’s brains are still developing the systems that support emotional regulation, executive functioning, and social understanding. Several factors make holidays particularly intense:
1) Heightened sensory input: Bright lights, loud music, new smells, and crowded spaces can increase stress and make staying calm harder.
2) Disrupted routines: Changes to sleep, meals, and daily structure can increase anxiety, especially for children with ADHD, ASD, or other neurodivergent profiles.
3) Social and emotional expectations: Navigating family interactions, gift-giving, and social niceties can overwhelm developing brains.
Research shows that high emotional intensity can temporarily reduce a child’s ability to self-regulate. Recognising these responses as natural—not “problematic”—helps caregivers respond with empathy, understanding, and effective support.💚🌱✨