Our Bella Rose

Our Bella Rose Our Bella Rose

Our roller coaster journey with our daughter with Velo cardio facial syndrome. Bella was stabilised and transfered to Mater PICU. Otherwise.

Bella Rose was born on the 8th May 2010 weighing 2.65kg and healthy, or so we thought. We took Bella home three days after she was born, then to return the next day with a very weak, pale, and floppy baby. Thanks to our amazing midwife, we just made it back in time before Bella had a cardiac arrest. There we found out Bella had an interupted aortic arch, VSD and ASD. We were told they could perform open heart surgery to fix this issue and we could be home within 3 weeks with our baby. Unfortunately things didnt go to plan and Bella ended up in the PICU with many complications and many near losses. Bella was diagnosed with VCFS (Velo Cardio Facial Syndrome) the next day. This syndrome is the second biggest syndrome after down syndrome and can affect those with it with up to 180 anomolies. For more information on VCSF look on the VCSF foundation website. To give you an overview of Bellas ten and a half months in PICU I will continue to list what Bella endured. Two open heart surgeries to fix her arch, 3 episodes of NEC (necrotising endocolitis), a tension pneumothorax, too many collapsed lungs to count, a fundoplication, gastrostomy and jajunostomy inserted, a transverse colon stricture removed, many infections, a diaphram plication, many surgical lines and investigations attended to. Just to name a few. Bella was ventilator dependant for the majority of the time she spent in PICU, due to all these complications and inability to wien. However, after her gut surgery when she was about 8-9months old, Bella went from strength to strength. She started to put on weight and was able to manage on just oxygen during the day and just on her CPAP at night. This meant after a time of Bella being stable on these settings we were able to take our precious girl home. So at ten and a half months in PICU we spent a couple of days on the ward and were dischaged home with bella on 1litre of oxygen when awake and a CPAP of 10 while sleeping (mask ventilation). Bella has continued to improve over the last couple of years we have been home and has manage to get off her oxygen and CPAP completely. Bella is still tube fed and will be for a while yet. Bella is also behind in her milestones due to her long hospitalisation and VCFS. We attend many theray appointments and specialist appointments which help Bella along her way. She is an amazing little fighter, and our little miracle. Bella will turn 4 this May (2014). She started kindergarten (mainstream) this year and is loving it. She has made great little friends and all the staff love her. Bella was diagnosed withVelopharangeal insufficiency last year, which means her soft palate isn't working properly creating unclear speech. We are awaiting surgery to fix this problem this year. She is happy enjoying her busy life. This page is set up to take over from the blog my dad started right at the beginning to keep friends, family and others updated about Bellas ups and downs. If it werent for all the prayers and support and the amazing medical teams and our God, Bella wouldnt be here today. Thankyou!

Our miracle girl is 15 today! We are so proud of you our Bella RoseπŸ’•. You are kind, you're inclusive, you are so loving,...
08/05/2025

Our miracle girl is 15 today! We are so proud of you our Bella RoseπŸ’•. You are kind, you're inclusive, you are so loving, you're quick whitted, you're cheeky, you love others with your whole heart. We are so so blessed to have you as our number 1 girl. You have not had an easy life by any means but you never complain, you're always thankful and always give your all. You have taught us so much and we continue to learn from you and how you do life. Thank you for being the calm, cool collected one in our crazy family. Thank you Jesus for 15 years more than what we thought we would get with our amazing Bella. Love you always and forever πŸ’•. Thanks for coming for the ride with us.

I cannot put into words how proud I am of Bell's today. She shone like a star on stage at her dance concert today. She w...
08/12/2024

I cannot put into words how proud I am of Bell's today. She shone like a star on stage at her dance concert today. She was surrounded by her beautiful team, teachers and friends. TADA provides an incredible space where all kids with all abilities have the opportunity to shine. It took a lot for me not to be a blubbering mess today watching all the children shine. They all have their challenges, but they push beyond them, and make the most of this precious life we have been given. We can learn a lot from our children and the determination and strength they have. Thank you Therapy and Dance Association Inc. you are one in a million.

Sorry long time between posts...that's usually a good thing as no major changes health wise. However, thought I'd pop on...
16/11/2024

Sorry long time between posts...that's usually a good thing as no major changes health wise. However, thought I'd pop on to share Bella's big decision of getting baptised tomorrow. Bella has a strong Christian faith that has helped get her through all her many challenges in her life. Tomorrow she's taking the next step, and declaring her faith in Jesus in front of our church family. Bella is super excited about it, and also a bit nervous of getting dunked lol. We are so proud of her and the beautiful young lady she is growing into.
*Picture of Bell's next to her picture at QCH, still on the wall. This week we were up there for dental review which was all good, as was cardiac review the week before:)

We have had a few people ask lately, what's next for Bella? It made me stop and think, as usually we are working towards...
12/07/2024

We have had a few people ask lately, what's next for Bella? It made me stop and think, as usually we are working towards the next medical thing, or knowing something needs fixing before looking too far ahead in life. It's so exciting to think there is no set medical problems needing 'fixing'. Her heart is going great, her Gastrostomy site is healed and we have got on top of her psoriasis. Her anxiety is getting better, she's happy going off to school. Bella has plans of being a kindy helper teacher one day.
For now we work on life skills, continue to work on social skills, strength and she starts dance class today, it's one thing she's really keen to get into. We know there will be things that come her way that will need medical intervention or support for, but for now we focus on celebrating how great she is.
The most exciting part, is that since Bella was born, travelling out of the country was out of the question due to all her medical conditions still waiting to be sorted....and the thought of not having reciprocal medical was just out of the question to think about. We are working hard and saving for our first overseas trip as a family next yearπŸ˜ƒ.

Bella officially turned 14 on Wednesday....after what feels like a month of celebration prior 🀣. Bella loves celebrating...
11/05/2024

Bella officially turned 14 on Wednesday....after what feels like a month of celebration prior 🀣. Bella loves celebrating her birthday, anyone that knows her knows she counts down to her birthday all year round. So a month of celebration is required lol. Bella made it back to school this week after a week of rest after her op. She's doing amazing, you wouldn't know she had surgery last week. Her surgical wound is healing but she has had a flare up of psoriasis around the surgical site. So still a bit to go to get on top of her skin, but so much better than dealing with constant leaking and pain of her skin burning from stomach acid.
Bell took some slices in to school to celebrate with her class on Wednesday, then went to the hospital for post op review, then out to dinner with friends. Today another lunch out with her Newcastle grandparents and GC grandparents and family. We are now officially finished all the party celebrations after starting very early in case Bell wasn't up to partying post op:)
If anyone deserves that much celebration it's you my girl, you make us so proud, you push through every challenge with a smile and thankfulness. πŸ’•

04/05/2024

Bell's had a great day, she's feeling so much better now that we have stopped the antibiotics. We had to stop them early as Bella just wasn't tolerating them, her poor gut was struggling. She has been fine today, with no pain meds either. She wants to jump on the trampoline so that's saying something...but I'm making her wait until surgical review Wednesday to see how the wounds healing. So thankful for all the prayers, they were answeredπŸ™πŸ½.

Bella made it home last night, and we all got to sleep under the one roof which made everyone happy. Bell slept pretty w...
01/05/2024

Bella made it home last night, and we all got to sleep under the one roof which made everyone happy. Bell slept pretty well, woke quite uncomfortable in the morning but I didn't wake her to give her regular panadol as she was sleeping soundly. Once we got more panadol into her, she has managed the pain well today. The nausea seems to have settled other than initially after the antibiotics she is still on. Bell is much happier and less anxious at home so it's a much better place to recover. She's otherwise doing great, resting up, eating and drinking and letting her body heal. Thank you all for your prayers and well wishes. Bella will go back to hospital in a weeks time for surgical follow up.

30/04/2024

After a long night, Bella has had a better day. However her cannula just tissued so changing to oral antibiotics. Then going to see if Bella can tolerate enough fluids to go home later tonight if Drs ok it. Bell's still quite uncomfortable but coping better than most would. She is tolerating very small amounts of fluid but not enough yet. Continued prayers for comfort, healing, tolerating fluids and food and no infection at her site would be so appreciated. Her sisters are really missing their big sissy and mummy. It's hard on all the kids. I do love to see how much they love each other but does make these times harder. πŸ™πŸ½
Thanks all, hopefully homeward bound soon.

Last update of the day as we are going to try get some sleep between obs, antibiotics, retching, a shared room and pain....
29/04/2024

Last update of the day as we are going to try get some sleep between obs, antibiotics, retching, a shared room and pain. Unfortunately Bell hasn't been tolerating any small amount of clear fluids, so the surgeon has made her nil by mouth again and charted her for regular antiemetics. The retching is really painful as it adds pressure to her stomach, movement is painful but if Bell stays still she's comfortable. With some tweaks to her pain regime hopefully a more settled night. Bella started off in CCU, but has just been moved to the peads ward... unfortunately in a shared room which doesn't help Bell's anxiety.
Bell still puts a smile on everyone's faces with her jokes and kind words, even when she feels average πŸ’ž. So proud of her strength and kindness!

Surgery is finished and Bella is snoozing away in recovery still. I've spoken with the surgeon and surgery went well, bu...
29/04/2024

Surgery is finished and Bella is snoozing away in recovery still. I've spoken with the surgeon and surgery went well, but was a little more tricky than expected. Bella's stomach had adhered to old scar tissue so it took a bit of time to release the stomach off the abdomen wall but it got done with extra time and care for her surgeon. Her skin around the site was also not in great condition due to the constant leaking she's been dealing with so they've removed some tissue/skin and closed it up. She will be on IV antibiotics for a couple of days which means at least 2 nights in hospital instead of the 1 we hoped for, but it's better to be safe than risk a post op infection.
Thanks all for the prayers. Please continue to pray for smooth healing, comfort and that she's able to tolerate enough fluids when she is allowed. Bella is typically very anxious in hospital, so hoping for her own room if sent to the ward over CCU, as she doesn't handle anyone walking in her room as she thinks they're there to hurt her (due to her past traumas in hospital). πŸ™πŸ½

Bella went into theatre at 830am, she went off well and has a great team working with her. She will hopefully be in post...
29/04/2024

Bella went into theatre at 830am, she went off well and has a great team working with her. She will hopefully be in post op area recovering around 11ish and then will be taken to critical care for the night. All going well she will get to escape hospital tomorrow night or Wednesday morning. I will update once Bella is settled later on. Thanks for the prayers πŸ™πŸ½

28/04/2024

So with another surgery tomorrow for Bella, I often get asked how I'm feeling...the honest answer is it's really hard to describe. It's a horrible thought to allow your child to go through suffering for the sake of a better quality of life, but what helps me is knowing I'm not in control (which is hard for a control freak), but God is. It doesn't mean life's not hard, and it doesn't totally suck seeing your baby struggle but my faith gives me a level of peace, that I wouldn't otherwise have.

At church today we sang a song and these lyrics resonated with me because I know God will carry us through again as He always does...so thought I'd share...

'You're good and I've witnessed it
You're strong and I've witnessed it
You're constant, I've witnessed it
And I'm confident, (I am) I'll see it again and again
You love and I've witnessed it
You heal and I've witnessed it
You save and I've witnessed it
And I'm confident, I'll see it again and again
I've witnessed Your faithfulness
I've seen You breathe life within
So I'll pour out my praise again
You're worthy, God, You're worthy of all of it'

_I've witnessed it ...song by Melodie Malone and Passion. Do yourself a favor and have a listen.

Feel free to share what helps you through your hard days, I know we all do life differently but thought I'd share how we do ours:)

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