13/04/2026
Part 2 - These may be a little less generic and more applicable for therapy with me (as I can’t speak for anyone else) but I think they speak a lot to the way I hope I show up for people and what they will get from me.
Like :
- I am here for the life updates! We may not spend a whole hour on them when there is serious work to be done, but if you have been to a Taylor Swift or Ed Sheeran concert recently, got a new puppy, been away, made a veggie patch and these things light you up, then yes I want to see and hear all about it because being able to experience joy even in the midst of hard things is an important part of our work.
- A big resounding YES you can bring your little people or even little animals with you (if it’s something you want to do). I will try to remain professional, but if you require a professional baby cuddler during your session, it is another skill set of mine and I am not adverse to using it! Babies make noise, sometimes they make mess, I get it, I have been there and it’s all if it happens in session.
- I am not just here for the struggling and challenging times, I am genuinely excited when something we have been working on (that could be anything from a job interview, communication with a loved one, boundaries, saying no, saying yes etc) comes to fruition. Trust me when I say I can high five you AND pass you the box of tissues.
- Ours is a therapeutic relationship, so there are important boundaries and power dynamics that I need to be aware of and honour. In saying that, if you want to share any big announcements or events with me, it’s honestly such a privilege for me to give witness to your important moments in life. You may never see it, but I have happy dances at texts!
- Even though it can sometimes be very hard for me to reign in a big “oh hey it’s you” smile and wave when I see clients out and about in public, it is part of my confidentiality agreement not to initiate contact so you don’t have to have an awkward “um who was that” moment if you’d rather not. BUT if you engage with me - game on and you are so welcome to!