ConnectEd Counselling and Consultancy

ConnectEd Counselling and Consultancy Psychological services - young people, parents & adults (counselling & assessments). Based in Graceville, Brisbane with services provided across Aus

Consultancy services - schools and businesses (presentations, training, PD, supervision & mentoring). At ConnectEd, we believe that all families and the communities they belong to benefit from a little extra care and support. Whether the problems are big or small, we want to make sure everyone has the chance to feel connected - to themselves, to others and to their community. Our counselling service offers the opportunity for young people and families to seek support for whatever difficulty they might be facing. Our team includes psychologists and counsellors, who provide high quality, professional services, through the lense of their unique personality and style. Our services cover counselling with children, adolescents, young adults and parents and we are able to offer both in-person and online support.

🚸 School’s back – and so are school speed zones. Let’s take care. As we settle back into term time routines, it’s a time...
06/10/2025

🚸 School’s back – and so are school speed zones. Let’s take care. As we settle back into term time routines, it’s a timely reminder that school zones are active again – and the responsibility for road safety rests with us adults.

Children and young people often don't have fully developed skills in judging speed, distance, or how long it takes a car to stop. Children under 10 often lack the cognitive maturity to judge traffic speeds and safe gaps. Until at least age 12, many still need guidance and supervision when crossing roads. In fact, research suggests that these skills – especially things like impulse control, situational awareness, and decision-making – continue developing into the mid-teens.

That means kids might:

• step out unexpectedly

• misread a situation

• or be distracted

They’re learning – and they need us to lead the way.

👉 So please: slow down around schools. Stick to the speed limit. Take extra care at crossings.
👉 And model the kind of safe, calm behaviour you want your kids to copy.

While we’re at it – these moments are also a great opportunity to support your child’s own road safety skills:

✔️ Pause and talk through what’s happening at a crossing
✔️ Narrate your choices as a pedestrian
✔️ Let them see that being cautious is smart, not fearful

It takes a village – and every bit of patience, presence and predictability helps.

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(Written by: Dr Matt O’Connor)
đź”— www.connectedcc.com.au

✨ New Free Resource for Parents & Carers ✨Starting counselling can feel like a big step — for kids and their grown-ups. ...
02/10/2025

✨ New Free Resource for Parents & Carers ✨

Starting counselling can feel like a big step — for kids and their grown-ups. That’s why we’ve created a free resource to help make the process a little easier:
📌 "Supporting a Child to See a Psychologist"
Download here 👉 https://connectedcc.com.au/free-parenting-resources/

đź’¬ Inside, you'll find:
• What to expect when your child begins therapy
• How to explain counselling to your child in an age-appropriate way
• Strategies to help reduce anxiety about the first appointment
• Ideas for how YOU can be involved in the process, without taking it over

Whether you're supporting a child who’s nervous, curious, resistant or unsure — this resource is designed to help you feel a little more equipped and a little less alone.

✨ And good news — we currently have no waitlist.
If you're ready to take the next step, we can help straight away.

At ConnectEd, we believe that when families feel informed and supported, kids have the best chance to thrive. đź’›

Please feel free to share this with others who might find it useful.

đź§  To learn more or book a session with one of our psychologists, visit: https://connectedcc.com.au/book-now/

✨ That’s a wrap on Perth!I’ve just finished up two big days at the School Psychologists' Association of WA Conference — ...
26/09/2025

✨ That’s a wrap on Perth!

I’ve just finished up two big days at the School Psychologists' Association of WA Conference — and what a valuable few days it’s been. It’s always such a privilege to connect with passionate professionals doing the work, day in and day out, in schools across the state.

Across the conference, I delivered two x 2-hour workshops to a great group of people. Today's session explored the growing influence of AI in schools — not just what it can do, but what it means. We looked at how this technology is already shaping the way we support students and families... and also acknowledged the complexities and challenges it brings with it.

Conferences like this are a reminder of the power of community in our profession — and of the shared commitment to better outcomes for young people.

Thanks Perth for having me and ConnectEd from the other side of Aus!

We’re over in Perth for the WA School Psychologist conference! And what an amazing first day - a beautiful sunrise compl...
25/09/2025

We’re over in Perth for the WA School Psychologist conference! And what an amazing first day - a beautiful sunrise complete with dolphins playing in the shore, amazing discussions about how school psycs can develop their skills and I gave a 2hr presentation on strategies to support school psycs to do their work well and also look after themselves

It has been a real privilege to have been invited all the way over from Brisbane by the School Psychologists' Association of WA. So looking forward to day 2 for my connection and also delivering another presentation on AI in schools!

- Dr Matt

Ps the eagle eyed viewer might spot the sugar glider toy that has made its way over with me and has featured throughout my trip, courtesy of my little one

✨ Wrapping up Term 3: Thank you for having us!This term we had the privilege of running presentations, workshops and con...
23/09/2025

✨ Wrapping up Term 3: Thank you for having us!

This term we had the privilege of running presentations, workshops and conversations across a wide range of topics — all centred on supporting young people, their families, and the professionals who care for them.

📌 From PDA to parenting, duty of care to digital wellbeing, our Term 3 presentations included:
• Supporting students with Pathological Demand Avoidance
• Counselling systems to improve your work
• Technology, parenting and young people
• Legal obligations of duty of care in schools
• Supporting students at significant risk
• Transition programs for primary and high school
• Live "Ask Me Anything" sessions
• Collaboration between pastoral care and teaching staff
• Emotional difficulties in schools
• Boundaries, burnout and being well
• Supporting parents with school transitions

💬 The breadth of topics reminds us just how complex and meaningful this work is. We’re grateful to be invited into schools, teams and communities who want to do better — for their students, their staff, and themselves.

đź§­ Our role is never to arrive with all the answers, but to offer a steady voice, up-to-date knowledge, and practical tools to support those already doing the work.

Thank you for sharing your stories, asking thoughtful questions, and showing up with such openness.

We’re already planning what Term 4 will bring!

đź’› Matt + the ConnectEd team

🚦 Australia takes a world-first step: banning chatbots from talking s*x or su***de with kids. A follow on from our previ...
21/09/2025

🚦 Australia takes a world-first step: banning chatbots from talking s*x or su***de with kids. A follow on from our previous post about AI safeguards

The eSafety Commissioner has just announced six new codes under the Online Safety Act. These rules will prevent children from having s*xual, violent, or harmful conversations with AI companions.

It’s a response to some sobering trends:
🔹 A rise in harmful tools like “nudify” sites, where students are creating deepfake images of their peers.
🔹 Cases where AI has been linked to young people in acute distress, even su***de.

The aim of these new codes is clear: keep children safe. Platforms will now be required to:
âś… Verify ages before kids can access harmful content
âś… Embed stronger safeguards into chatbots
âś… Detect and deactivate underage accounts

✨ But here’s the challenge: banning certain conversations doesn’t stop the need for them.
• Kids will still have questions about s*x, bodies, and relationships.
• Young people will still face moments of deep emotional distress, including thoughts of su***de.
• And many will still look online first if they don’t feel safe talking to a parent or trusted adult.

📌 What can parents do?

• Be the safe place first. Create an environment where no topic is “too big” or “too awkward” to bring up.

• Ask, don’t assume. Instead of “You’re not using that, are you?” try “What do you use it for? What do you like about it?”

• Stay informed. Tech is moving fast — but even a little awareness goes a long way in helping kids feel supported.

• Model calm curiosity. If your child asks about something confronting, take a breath. They’re showing you trust by asking.

This isn’t about replacing regulation with parenting, or parenting with regulation. It’s about recognising that children will always seek answers — and the more safe adults are willing to guide them, the less likely they are to turn to unsafe sources.

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At ConnectEd Counselling and Consultancy, we help families navigate the tough conversations and the challenges that come with raising kids in a digital world. If you need support, our team of psychologists are here with immediate availability.
Find out more: www.connectedcc.com.au

✨ It’s nearly here… our 2026 ConnectEd School PD for school psychologists and counsellors is about to launch!We’ve been ...
17/09/2025

✨ It’s nearly here… our 2026 ConnectEd School PD for school psychologists and counsellors is about to launch!

We’ve been busy behind the scenes updating the format, adding 12 fresh sessions, and making this year's offering even more relevant, engaging and practical for school psychologists and counsellors.

To celebrate, we’re giving away one FREE full membership (valued at $500). 🥳

📌 Want to win? Here’s how:
➤ Like this post and our page + tag your colleagues + sign up for updates

Sign up here: https://connectedcc.com.au/subscribe/

Whether you’re returning for another year or joining us for the first time, we’re so excited to be bringing you another year of evidence-based learning, connection and professional care.

AI tools like ChatGPT have become part of the landscape for many teens (and increasingly, younger children). Whether it'...
14/09/2025

AI tools like ChatGPT have become part of the landscape for many teens (and increasingly, younger children). Whether it's to get help with homework, manage emotions, or just satisfy curiosity — they're using it.

This kind of AI is becoming a regular part of how young people learn, explore, and even seek support. And while that comes with opportunity — it also comes with risk.

✨ The good news? OpenAI has committed to releasing new parental controls and teen safety tools soon. Within the next month, parents will be able to:

🔹 Link their account with their teen’s account (minimum age of 13) through a simple email invitation.
🔹 Control how ChatGPT responds to their teen with age-appropriate model behaviour rules, which are on by default.
🔹 Manage which features to disable, including memory and chat history.
🔹 Receive notifications when the system detects their teen is in a moment of acute distress. Expert input will guide this feature to support trust between parents and teens.

📌 As a parent, you don’t need to become a tech expert overnight. But here’s what you can do right now:

• Stay curious, not reactive — Ask your child how they use it, and what they’re learning.
• Use it yourself — Try it out. Explore the settings. It helps you understand what they’re seeing.
• Talk about boundaries — Not just what’s allowed, but why. Make safety a shared value, not just a rule.
• Keep the relationship at the centre — All the tools in the world won’t replace your connection with them.

💬 AI tools aren’t going away. But with the right settings, guidance and conversations, they can become another tool that supports — rather than undermines — our parenting.

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At ConnectEd Counselling and Consultancy, we support parents to feel confident and connected as they guide their kids through a changing world. If you need support navigating tech, behaviour, anxiety, or anything in between, our psychologists can help.
Connect with us: www.connectedcc.com.au

Today I took my daughter to look at outfits for Comic-Con 🎭What struck me wasn’t just the costumes themselves (though so...
13/09/2025

Today I took my daughter to look at outfits for Comic-Con 🎭

What struck me wasn’t just the costumes themselves (though some of them are incredible!)—it was the way people gather around shared interests, creativity, and effort.

Events like these are such a beautiful reminder of what community can look like:
• People coming together with joy and enthusiasm
• A celebration of uniqueness and imagination
• The simple but powerful act of belonging

Community doesn’t have to be complicated. Sometimes it’s as simple as showing up in a space where people are excited to share what they love. And for our young people, these moments of connection are deeply valuable—they show that who you are and what you enjoy can be celebrated alongside others.

đź’¬ Where do you and your family find that sense of shared connection?

(Dr Matt)

📌 Assessment Availability — Now OpenWe’ve got some rare news to share…For the first time in a long while, we currently h...
11/09/2025

📌 Assessment Availability — Now Open

We’ve got some rare news to share…

For the first time in a long while, we currently have availability to complete cognitive, learning, and ADHD assessments at ConnectEd.

âś… Psychoeducational Assessments
(for concerns related to learning, academic achievement, or potential learning disorders)

âś… ADHD Assessments
(for attention, focus, regulation, and executive functioning)

🔹 These appointments have always been in high demand — which is why it’s a little exciting to be able to offer spaces right now.

We take enormous pride in the assessments we conduct. They're not rushed checklists or quick fixes. Our assessments are thorough, meaningful, and deeply considered, designed to provide clarity and direction, not just a label.

✨ Whether you’re a parent seeking to understand your child better, or an educator needing insights to support a student — this could be the right time to get in touch.

đź’¬ Enquire or book here: www.connectedcc.com.au/book-now/

Let’s make sense of what’s going on — together.

✨ Navigating school transitions – together. Starting Prep. Moving into high school. Switching schools entirely.These mom...
09/09/2025

✨ Navigating school transitions – together. Starting Prep. Moving into high school. Switching schools entirely.

These moments can feel HUGE — for kids and for the adults who love them. Whether you're preparing your little one for their very first day or supporting a teen through high school nerves, transitions can stir up a mix of emotions: excitement, worry, anticipation... sometimes all at once.

The good news? With the right support, most children navigate these big changes beautifully.

💬 Join us for a FREE parent webinar where our very own clinical and school psychologist, Dr Matt O’Connor, will share:

✅ How transitions impact children — and what helps
âś… Practical ways to prepare before the first day
âś… Emotional and practical support strategies during the transition
✅ How to build your child’s confidence and independence
âś… When to be concerned and where to seek help

🔹 This event is ideal for parents of children starting Prep, moving to high school, or changing schools.

📌 Can’t make it live? A recording will be made available afterwards on the QIS Parents Network website.

Register here: https://tinyurl.com/5aeffv3e

Starting therapy can feel like a big step, and finding the right fit is important. If you’ve ever wondered what therapy ...
08/09/2025

Starting therapy can feel like a big step, and finding the right fit is important. If you’ve ever wondered what therapy might be like or what to expect in a session, here’s a look through the eyes of Lauren Keating - one of our amazing psychologists. Get to know her and how she works, and if you'd like to make a time to talk with Lauren, you're in luck as she has increased her hours and has immediate availability! Book here: https://connectedcc.com.au/book-now/

✨ What’s your favourite part of being a psychologist?
People are incredible, and it’s a privilege to walk alongside them—making meaning, building narratives, healing, thriving, laughing, crying, and holding space for the human experience. I love witnessing the little wins, the incremental changes, and the deepening of self-awareness and self-compassion.

✨ How do you tailor your approach to different clients?
With gentle curiosity and lots of feedback. My approach is always client-centred—meeting people where they are. It’s about timing and trust, knowing when to push and when to pause. Sometimes, it’s about learning new skills, and other times, it’s about discovering what those needs are in the first place.

✨ What’s one thing you wish more people knew about counselling?
Counselling isn’t just for times of crisis. It can be just as valuable in exploring what you want to be different—how you want to feel within yourself, your relationships, and life in general.

✨ What advice would you give to someone starting therapy for the first time?
You are the expert in your own life, and your voice matters. Relational fit is important. Your needs are important. Give feedback. And it’s okay if you don’t know exactly what you want from therapy—figuring that out is part of the process.

✨ What can someone expect in a first session with you?
Our first session is about getting to know you—your life, relationships, work or study, and what brought you to therapy. We might explore past experiences that have shaped you and get curious about what positive change might look like for you. Your story can unfold in whatever way feels right—whether that’s structured or a non-linear jumble of thoughts and experiences.

✨ How do you help clients feel comfortable and safe in sessions?
This is a space for you to just be. Sit, lie down, fidget—whatever helps you feel safe and regulated. We always start with a capacity check-in to guide the intensity of the session, and I encourage setting boundaries (e.g., “I don’t want to go there today”). I regularly check in to make sure we’re on track and to adjust based on what feels best for you.

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3/101 Verney Road West
Graceville, QLD
4075

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Monday 8am - 5pm
Tuesday 8am - 5pm
Wednesday 8am - 5pm
Thursday 8am - 5pm
Friday 8am - 5pm

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