Roslyn Loxton Coaching

06/09/2025

Lately, it feels as though the world has shifted shape—its colours, tones, and textures unfamiliar.

A part of me feels ungrounded, unsettled, unsure. The meaningful pieces of my life seem to be moving, reshaping, even falling away… all on the clock of divine timing.

In these seasons of uncertainty, when choices feel cloudy and “real” feels hard to find, there’s one question I return to again and again:
✨ What is in my heart?
Because your heart always speaks in a language beyond confusion—it holds the quiet thread back to your true self.

💗If you are curious about your own heart, try our Love ReWired Archetypes Quiz:
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04/09/2025

I just watched a reel of chimps reuniting with humans they hadn’t seen in years. Flippen Heck! Bawled my eyes out!

The moment they locked eyes, they wrapped each other in an embrace so fierce, so pure, it was impossible not to feel it ripple through my own chest.

That’s the thing about love that I have witnessed.
When you open your heart to it—really open—it’s not just joy that floods in. Vulnerability does too. The ache. The risk. The tenderness that comes with being real.

But here’s a truth I've discovered:
To wall your heart off to avoid the ache is like caging the very reason you’re alive.
The ache is not your enemy. It’s nature reminding you that you care. It’s what keeps us human, connected, empathetic, charitable. It’s the thread that binds us across species, across lifetimes.
The pure high of open-hearted love is magic. And yes, it may ache at times—but I’d choose that ache over a life behind walls every single time.

💫 What would happen if you allowed your heart to open just a little more today?

🌿 If you’re curious about the ways your own heart protects, resists, or reaches for connection, the Archetype Quiz will show you the hidden patterns guiding your love.
It’s not psychology—it’s your nature speaking.

✨ Take the Quiz Here:
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02/09/2025

Human Design keeps me honest.
If you haven't heard of it, look it up.
This week, doing charts for our tour crew reminded me of my own old pattern — the urge to keep everyone happy, even at the cost of myself.

In my chart, it shows up as an undefined ego.
In my heart, it shows up as the archetype of over-giving.

This is the power of awareness — whether through Human Design or archetypes — to notice the stories we’ve carried, which ones don't serve us and to begin to transform them.

A faulty story can really lead to some faulty emotions and outcomes.
Stories are stories, they can be adjusted and retold.
What stories might you be holding that are creating pain or separation or an outcomes that depletes your joy or life in some way?
Question those stories or try being open to changing the perspective of them so you can be freed from their clutches.

✨You can take The Archetype Quiz Now - The Link is in the BIO to reveal your pattern — and learn how to transform it into your power. Become a more enlivening story teller.
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01/09/2025

My husband and I have been staying with my mother-in-law.

She’s 80 now and a little more forgetful -aren't we all.
A little harder of hearing.
And sometimes, it can be frustrating.
Sadly, my husband really struggles.
We can all struggle with our mums at times.
Her parenting style maybe left some triggers.
And now, those old triggers seem to be rubbing up against new challenges.
I'm such an observer, here’s what I keep learning:
When someone’s heart is walled, it's not super conscious but deafness is not just in the ears.
Our deafness can be in our heart.
Which makes it easier to collapse into frustration, judgy-ness, which means we can lose the opportunity to meet those that frustrate us with grace.
💡This isn’t about bypassing your own feelings.
It’s about being aware we can consciously choose the emotion you want to feel on the other side of this *frustrating moment.
Compassion instead of reactivity.
Peace instead of resentment.
Love instead of impatience or the need to control.
Or the need to be heard before you actually hear.
And not just the words, but what's under the words.

It's not easy, but it's possible and worth it.
To aim for 'how you want to feel', how you want to 'show up'
Like creative visualisation for your emotional responses.

This is part of the work we do in Empire of Love.
Our new quiz isn't about labelling you with disorders.
It will reveal your archetype—the natural patterns in you that shape how you love, how you guard, or react.
And we offer medicine that isn’t traditional psychology.
It’s a nature-based returning.
And your nature is worth returning to.

✨Take The Archetype Quiz Now - Link in BIO to meet your pattern — and learn how to gracefully and naturally transform it into your inner peace.

30/08/2025

Before every show, I stand side of stage and pray.

I call on Saraswati—goddess of voice and communication.
I whisper to the angels.
I ask my guides to use me—to help someone feel again through a song.
Not because I want applause.
But because music opens places we don’t always know how to touch with words.
The truth is…
Every note we sing, every word we say, carries energy.
And we all have patterns—love archetypes—that shape how we express and how we receive in ways that create our whole life and reality.
Some of us over-explain and fill in all the gaps.
Some of us retreat emotionally.
Some of us speak with fire.
Some speak with fog.
🎶 I’ve seen it on stage.
I’ve lived it off stage.
That’s why I passionately created the Empire of Love Quiz.
To help you understand your communication shadows… and your light in a way that moves through you like music.

Your full voice—your unique truth—is worth singing and hearing.

✨ Take The Archetype Quiz Now - Link in BIO to meet your pattern — and learn how to transform it into your power.

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29/08/2025

“There was a time I tried to fix myself by trying harder…
More books, more affirmations, more mindset work.
But it wasn’t until I softened into love—into body, breath, and being—that something shifted.
What if the answers don’t live in fixing, but in remembering?
Something new is coming to help us remember.

✨Take The Archetype Quiz Now - Link in BIO to meet your pattern — and learn how to transform it into your power.
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28/08/2025

🚗 Somewhere between the winding roads and wide open skies in the NZ countryside, I reflected on how much of life gets lived on autopilot.

Not because we don’t care—
but because we’re stuck in patterns or protecting or avoiding something.
The Tender Strategist keeps everyone happy.
The Heart Wall keeps the ache out.
The Self-Seeker floats instead of roots.
The Sacred Mirror shows up for the vows sake.
The Bitterness of Burnout quietly says, “Keep going anyway.”
I know these internal parts. I’ve been affected by all of them.

And as I drove through the countryside this week, I felt each one start to loosen and new ways of showing up coming online. It felt exciting and unchartered all at the same time.
I know that nature has a way of doing that.
She doesn’t rush your healing but she holds all of the spaces for you to put yourself amongst her magic.
She just keeps offering the rhythm that brings you back to what’s real if you can be present enough to soak it in.

That’s the essence behind The Empire of Love and Love Rewired—
A new way of manifesting and realigning with you and your pure heart self.
A way that doesn’t bypass your wounds but invites them back into belonging through the filter of somatic presence and natures ways and wisdoms.
💌 Your heart knows the path if your mind could only join forces.
Your archetype holds your patterns.
✨ Take the quiz and meet the part of you that’s ready to soften or ready to rise or ready to change

👉 https://the-empire-of-love.mykajabi.com/empire-love-foundational-quiz

27/08/2025

There’s an old story that lives in many cultures…​​​​​​​​
A child asks their elder:​​​​​​​​
“Why do I feel torn between love and fear, between peace and rage, between hope and despair?”​​​​​​​​
The elder answers:​​​​​​​​
“Inside you are two wolves.​​​​​​​​
One is fed by love, truth, and tenderness.​​​​​​​​
The other, by fear, judgment, and pain.​​​​​​​​
The one who grows strongest…​​​​​​​​
is the one you feed.”​​​​​​​​
But here’s what the old stories sometimes leave out:​​​​​​​​
You don’t have to shame the angry wolf.​​​​​​​​
Or exile the fearful one.​​​​​​​​
In the Empire of Love,​​​​​​​​
we listen to both.​​​​​​​​
We hold space for the one who learned to survive.​​​​​​​​
But we choose to feed the one who knows how to love.​​​​​​​​
🌿 What emotion do you want to grow stronger today?​​​​​​​​
You don’t have to fake it.​​​​​​​​
Just name it.​​​​​​​​
Sit with it.​​​​​​​​
Feed it.​​​​​​​​
Because your daily mood is not just a reaction—​​​​​​​​
it’s a relationship, with yourself and your nature.​​​​​​​​
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🕊️ A new way of reclaiming that choice is coming soon…​​​​​​​​
The Love Rewired quiz will show you where you’ve been feeding fear out of habit,​​​​​​​​
and how to gently return to the potent healing & guiding nature of pure love.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​ , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , ,

22/08/2025

I don't have all the answers.
I have curiosity and concern.
Yesterday I visited glow worm caves. Silence was requested, yet a child in the group was noisy, restless, disruptive. Annoyance rippled through the adults — I even heard “poor parenting.”

But I wondered… what if this wasn’t “bad behaviour”? What if this child’s mind simply couldn’t be still — perhaps ADHD, or another neurodivergent rhythm?

When children who can’t sit still are constantly told to hush, the lesson they absorb isn’t quiet — it’s shame. And shame grows into disconnection, mistrust of self, even rebellion later in life.

The science tells us: ADHD isn’t disobedience, it’s difference. Suppression rarely works. Compassion, redirection, and understanding do.

And yet, let’s be real — it is hard on teachers whose classrooms are constantly disrupted. It’s stressful for other students. It’s draining for parents.
Frustration is real.
That’s why we need more than blame — we need systems that are better equipped to support everyone:
🌱 Teachers with tools and training.
🌱 Parents with resources and understanding.
🌱 Students with awareness and compassion.
🌱 Children with outlets, guidance, and space to be themselves.
So what if, instead of demonising, we held more curiosity and demanded better support?
What if our classrooms, families, and communities were designed with difference in mind?
Because real support doesn’t just help a child survive the moment. It helps them — and all of us — grow into a society where difference is not a disruption, but a richness.
I don't have all the answers.
I have curiosity and concern for how our society holds space for all that is.

21/08/2025

From Mystic Mumma...
dear hearts~

we have been slowly allowing for the inner transformation that has been occurring within us to continue to deepen and move its way across the spectrum of our understanding…

we have the first of two NEW MOONS in VIRGO dawning on our horizons on August 22nd…

VIRGO is ushering in a refined awareness of what is necessary for things to ameliorate, improve and work more cohesively…

we are beginning a brand new phase and the structures (physical or mental) that had held us in a certain place are dissolving…

whatever circumstances or daily habits had been previously been working for us no longer are…

so we have to approach our lives from a whole new level of consciousness than we have in the past…

the same approach, the old ways are not going to work because circumstances are different all around…

so we have an opportunity to integrate what we have gleamed about living our life differently, doing our work differently, being in our relationships differently and adapt the VIRGO lens to re-assess and map a new way forward…

this NEW MOON at the O degree VIRGO is a potent new seed being planted for the garden of our tomorrows…

VIRGO says now is the time to lay the groundwork for our future devotion…

VIRGO is about preparedness and yet often in life nothing can truly prepare us for what is to come…

life comes with many twists and turns, teaching us to cultivate our inner wisdom and anchor into our connection to our higher self so that we can navigate whatever comes our way…

this NEW MOON in VIRGO is square URANUS in GEMINI and so something unexpected or surprising might come into play…

whatever information or revelation arrives is for us to keep an open mind to what is changing, for so much of what we are learning has to do with our mindset….

and the understanding of how we are responsible for the narrative we create, the picture we paint and the words we speak…

we are writing a new story for ourselves…

and it requires listening with our hearts….

03/04/2025

There's me. Playing with some special guests tonight. Fun fun.

23/03/2025