18/04/2025
Life is unfair.
We've all heard it, maybe even shouted it to the heavens in moments of frustration. Yet, what if we flipped the script and said, "Life is incredibly fair, but only if we choose to see it that way." The sentiment rings true in countless experiences – from the seemingly random distribution of talent and opportunity to the crushing weight of unforeseen hardship. However, it's precisely in those moments that we discover our inner strength.
"Life infari"?
That's a new one, a playful twist on the familiar phrase, perhaps suggesting a life filled with both the incredible and the inexplicable. And it's true, life often defies easy categorization; it's a chaotic mix of joy and sorrow, success and failure.
But what if we viewed that chaos as an opportunity for growth? The idea that "everything happens for a reason" offers a counterpoint, a comforting belief that even amidst suffering, there's an underlying purpose.
But is life truly fair?
The answer is complex and deeply personal. Some find solace in the concept of karma, believing that actions have consequences, balancing the scales of justice over time. Others, like Viktor Frankl, whose experiences in N**i concentration camps profoundly shaped his understanding of suffering, emphasize our capacity to find meaning even in the face of unimaginable adversity. We can't control what happens to us, but we can control how we respond.
Feeling overwhelmed is a perfectly valid response to life's complexities.
It's okay to not be okay.
The important thing is to acknowledge those feelings and seek support when needed.
If you feel overwhelmed with your life, reach out...My Virtual Hypnotherapy Centre offers few free sessions - a testament to the availability of help; reaching out is a sign of strength, not weakness. And perhaps, by embracing support and confronting our challenges head-on, we can indeed live life to the fullest, finding meaning and purpose even in the face of life's inherent unfairness.