Rayma Torresan Counselling Service

08/01/2026

04/01/2026

Something new is brewing

04/01/2026

Something I want to share for the parents who’ve been asking how The Connected Parent works 🤍

The program includes a self-paced course plus the option to join live Parenting Pods.

The course gives you strong foundations — understanding your child’s brain and behaviour, emotional regulation, connection, routines, boundaries, and what’s really underneath meltdowns, big emotions, defiance, or anxiety. You move through it in your own time and can revisit it whenever you need.

The Parenting Pods are where it all comes together — a supportive space to ask questions, talk through real-life situations, and apply what you’re learning to your family.

Can’t attend live? Replays are available, and you can submit questions ahead of time.

This isn’t about being a perfect parent or doing more.
It’s about feeling calmer, clearer, and more confident in how you respond.

If this feels like what you’ve been looking for, the link is in my bio ✨

02/01/2026

When parents do the work, children rise with them ✨

When a parent heals and grows, the whole family shifts.
Often it’s not the child that needs fixing — it’s the system that needs support.

Children don’t need perfect parents.
They need supported, regulated, resourced ones.

When you care for your nervous system and understand behaviour, your child begins to thrive — not because they changed first, but because you did 🤍

When you rise, they rise.

Link in bio

14/12/2025

So many parents have reached out lately needing support with anxiety, behaviour, emotional regulation and all the big feelings that come with raising kids. 💛

That’s why The Connected Parent online course is officially coming in January 2026, followed by small, live ParentingPods in February — just 6–8 parents so we can create real, lasting change together.

Because here’s the truth:
Most kids don’t need therapy — they need YOU supported, skilled, and resourced.
You’re the one flying the plane, and when you feel steady, your child does too. ✨

If you want the details, send me a DM.
Can’t wait to support you inside The Connected Parent. 💛

12/12/2025

✨ THE CONNECTED PARENT is going LIVE in 2026! ✨

If you’re ending the year with a child who feels a little “out of sorts”…
Anxiety, meltdowns, overwhelm…
Or you feel stuck in the same patterns and want things to feel calmer, easier, and more connected —
this is for you. 💛

I’m launching my 6-week Parenting Pod starting early February 2026.

Inside the Live pod's, you’ll learn how to:
✔ Strengthen attachment + emotional safety
✔ Reduce anxiety and dysregulation
✔ Navigate big emotions and meltdowns
✔ Shape behaviour
✔ Build your child’s confidence, resilience + self-worth
✔ Create a calmer, more connected home

Your enrolment includes lifetime access to The Connected Parent online course, which gives you the foundational psychoeducation so you can get real results, faster.

LIVE Parenting Pods are small (6–8 parents) so you get personalised support, community, and practical tools each week.

If you want to join the waitlist,
DM me the word POD and I’ll send you all the details.

Let’s make 2026 the year everything changes for you and your child. 🤍

14/10/2025

WHOOSH
That feeling that takes control when your day is just not going to plan.

Take a break, let it out!

10/10/2025

🧬 “What’s written in your genes can be rewritten through connection.”

Epigenetics teaches us that our experiences can shape how our genes express themselves.

Stress, fear, and instability can leave lasting marks on the nervous system — but so can safety, calm, and love.

Every time you meet a child’s fear with patience…
Every time you choose connection over correction…
You’re helping to rewrite the story their body tells itself about safety and belonging.

That’s the heart of trauma-informed care — healing happens through relationship, not perfection.

🌿 Learn how to bring this into everyday moments through:

🎥 The Connected Parent Course – lifetime access for deeper learning and practical tools

✨ The Parenting Pods for Foster Carers – a 6-week supported group experience

📩 Contact me, Rayma to learn more or join the next pod.
Link in bio | raymatorresancounselling.com

17/07/2025

You’re allowed to…

✅ Set boundaries
✅ Take up space and own your story
✅ Say no (without guilt)

I know—it doesn’t always feel allowed.
Especially when you’ve spent years putting everyone else first.

But healing invites us to choose ourselves again. And again. And again.

🌿 Discover Inner Healing is your gentle, step-by-step guide to do just that.

It’s where you’ll learn to quiet the noise, reconnect with yourself, and finally feel safe being you.

💻 Join the journey today.
https://raymatorresancounselling.com/discover-inner-healing/

08/07/2025

Here’s the truth no one wants to hear: your child isn’t the problem.As a therapist, I often see parents bringing in young kids hoping I’ll “fix” them — but c...

28/06/2025

Here’s the truth from a family therapist:
I don’t “fix” kids.
Because the real change happens at home — with you.

You can’t raise an emotionally healthy child from a place of unhealed pain.
When we don’t do the inner work, we:
🔁 Repeat patterns
💥 React instead of respond
😞 Pass on what we never meant to

But when you heal…
✨ Your child feels safer
✨ Your home feels calmer
✨ You trust yourself more
✨ And your child grows up with a strong, secure sense of self

This is exactly why I created The Connected Parent — a course that helps you understand your child by first understanding yourself.

This isn’t just about managing behaviour.
It’s about healing your past so your child doesn’t have to.

Let’s break the cycle — together 💛

27/06/2025

Big news—I'm now officially certified in Relational Life Therapy (RLT)! 🙌

This isn’t your average couples therapy.

RLT, created by world-renowned therapist Terry Real, goes far beyond learning to “communicate better.” It dives deep into the patterns that quietly damage connection, so couples can heal them together.

💬 It’s about honest, compassionate conversations.
💛 Practical tools that work in real life.
🔁 And real, lasting change that goes deeper than surface fixes.

I’m proud to share that I’m now one of only five therapists in Australia (and growing!) certified directly by Terry himself. It’s a powerful, no-fluff, heart-centered approach, and I’m honoured to offer it to the couples I support.

So if you’re stuck in the same fights...
Or feeling more like housemates than partners...
Or carrying the heavy load of parenting, burnout, and emotional distance...

Please know this: you’re not alone.
And it can get better—with the right kind of support.

📩 Message me to learn more.
Let’s shift the pattern—together.

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