05/12/2025
Lesson 2561 Sonder.
A client taught me a new word yesterday, through a tattoo.
SONDER.
Sonder is the quiet realisation that every person you pass is living a life as deep and intricate as your own.
A whole inner world filled with memories, fears, dreams, and stories you will never fully know.
It is the moment you pause and recognise that the stranger walking beside you carries their own chapters.
The barista who remembers your order has a heart that has broken and healed.
The driver at the lights might be holding a hope so delicate it has no words yet.
The person who frustrates you may be moving through something heavy that you cannot see.
Sonder softens us.
It widens our compassion and reminds us that we are all navigating our way, trying, learning, growing.
In hypnotherapy, we often explore how expanding awareness shifts our emotional state.
Sonder does the same.
The moment you see others as whole and human, something inside you settles.
You meet the world with less defence and more understanding.
Sonder invites us to walk through the day with a quieter heart, a gentler mind and a deeper appreciation for the invisible stories unfolding all around us.