31/03/2023
Wounds
Imagine that that you have wounds all over your body, and that everyone in the world has wounds all over their body, and that every time you accidentally make contact with someone’s wounds, or they make contact with your wound, it hurts. This is an explanation found in the Four Agreements by don Miguel Ruiz (a Toltec spiritual teacher) on how emotional wounds get triggered.
We all have emotional wounds. They could stem from your youth or
maybe you believe in reincarnation, and they are wounds from another lifetime, or if you believe that just as your grandmother’s nose sits on your face through her DNA, so too does her insecurity live in your body…whatever the source, we all have emotional wounds.
Unfortunately because the wounds are not visible, it’s very hard to be mindful of not triggering another person’s wounds. If this is someone we encounter regularly, then we might develop tact around that wound.
When we see triggers from this place of perception it also helps us not to get entrenched in a battle, because we won’t take this person’s reaction personally. We notice that their reaction has nothing to with us, even though it seems like it is aimed at us. We can only hope or pray that this person realises they have the wound and that they will seek help. Their wounds, Their journey.
Obviously if it affecting our safety (whether mental or physical), then we need to take action to protect ourselves,this could mean moving away from the situation or having a discussion etc
For our own wounds, it is awareness that brings about healing. When you become aware that you have been triggered (you might notice the change in thoughts and the disruption of your peace), and from there you can begin the work of healing. The wound gives you a place to begin.
🙏🏼Ya Shafee Ya Khafee🙏🏼 (The Healer heals)