27/05/2024
Posted • The birth of Evelyn May Owen 🕊️✨🌙
6 days since I birthed our baby girl into the world, in the comfort of our home, with my love, my mum, our puppa, and our 2 incredible midwife’s Emma and Teena by my side holding space as I journeyed the realms of birth.
Born at 11.03am on the 21st of May after a 30 hour unmedicated, undisturbed, complete physiological birth, weighing 8.6pound, 51cm long ✨
Birthing life took me to a place beyond what l’ve ever known existed, a place that demanded the full surrender and handing over of my physical body to what felt like the entire pulse of the universe coarsing through me, opening me, while my spirit journeyed back and forth to some other place to collect our daughter.
Biggest shoutout to my mum and Luke who held the most incredible space as I laboured over 27 hours in our home, through day and night and day again, before we called our incredible midwives at team for the final stretch and delivery of our baby girl.
I cannot even articulate how empowering it was having a birth team around me that fully understands and advocates for physiological birth, trusting my body and baby completely, allowing and encouraging us to take our time, follow my bodies cues and looking me dead in the eyes and telling me I can, soul to soul, mother to mother when I felt like birth was bigger than me.
I believe it’s every woman’s birthright to be advocated for and to birth in this way- if this is what she chooses.
Birthing at home healed and empowered the deepest parts of me as a mother and as a woman. 🕊️
And in the famous words of my midwife Emma..
‘This isn’t bigger than you, this IS you. You’re already doing it, and you’re doing amazingly, now keep going’ 😭