10/08/2025                                                                            
                                    
                                                                            
                                            A client told me this week they felt like they “failed” because they couldn’t keep up a change they had decided to try with food.
I told them:
This isn’t failure.
This is the work.
By “failing”, it just shows you are doing it. You are showing up for yourself. 
Sometimes you try something, and you can’t keep it up. But you tried it, whether it was one, two, three times…….. you did it.
That doesn’t mean you’ve gone backwards. It means you did a thing, and then you didn’t. 
I wonder what it tells you? I wonder what it means is possible?
Healing is about being curious, noticing, adjusting, and finding what feels safe and doable — without judgment, and with compassion for what shows up for you, and for the part of yourself that found it hard to keep going. 
If you’re in a place where it feels like you keep “failing,”, you’re probably (actually, you definitely) are doing more of the work than you realise.
🪷 Save this for the days you need that reminder