05/12/2025
I was crowned Queen of the Nervous System and I'm owing it.
Over the past 2 years I've been working within myself, to reach this level of regulation so this was a great compliment to receive.
For her sessions in particular, I wasn't doing any nervous system work per se, it's that she felt her guard dropping as soon as she entered my space and he system attuned to mine.
Some people come in and think they're booking a massage.
But what actually happens is their nervous system meets mine…
and remembers how to soften,
how to breathe again,
how to stop bracing against life for a minute.
It’s two bodies talking long before the words start.
It’s safety without explanation.
It’s regulation without effort.
It’s the kind of calm you can’t fake or force - you can only be it.
This is why my clients feel different with me.
It’s not that I do “more” or something "magical."
It’s that I hold differently.
And when someone is attuned to you like that,
their healing begins the moment they walk in the door.
My treatment room is my safe space, it's the place where I become the most embodied version of myself. I'm calm, I'm grounded and I'm able to hold you, all versions of you are safe to simply be.
Now don't get me wrong, there's still an over stimulated version of Sophie, but she's appearing less and less these days and I can't explain how amazing that is. Totally life changing.
My final sentence that you need to hear -
I once was just like you ✨