08/11/2025
Who’s Really in Control?
Ever catch yourself thinking, “Life just happens to me”?
That thought reveals your locus of control — the belief about who’s steering the ship of your life.
If your locus is external, you might feel like circumstances, luck, or other people decide your outcomes.
If it’s internal, you recognise your choices and responses as the true source of direction and change.
When you strengthen your internal locus of control, you build autonomy — the sense that your actions are self-chosen and self-endorsed. That’s where real happiness begins.
Each small decision you take ownership of — setting a boundary, taking a risk, speaking your truth — builds agency. And agency is far more powerful for well-being than money or status will ever be.
You don’t need to control everything. You just need to remember: you always control your next choice.
What’s one small decision you can make today that’s truly yours?
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