
16/07/2025
These forms are used at the RHH too. Fill it out if it feels good, but you don’t have to, and you don’t owe anyone an explanation for your choices. An informed choice is the most important thing, so be sure you understand the pros and cons specific to you. And opting in or out of recommendations doesn’t require you to submit an essay on your reasons.
Public service announcement: If you are being asked to complete one of these (or a similar version used in your part of the world), and it doesn't feel supportive, informative, or like it is a discussion being held in partnership with you, you are not obliged to complete the form.
Care plans can be fabulously wonderfully supportive and empowering. Care plans can also be a tool of coercion and disempowerment. If the vibe is more the second than the first, it is completely OK to take the form with you and never fill it out. It even says that in the Qld Health guideline: To the extent that the woman wishes to do so, the woman may maintain documentation including the Discussion and Partnership Care Plan (p. 15). In other words - if you don't wish to do so, that's fine!
https://www.health.qld.gov.au/__data/assets/pdf_file/0022/736213/maternity-decline-guide.pdf