21/03/2021
8 years ago I attended my first womenās yoga retreat. It was transformative, thatās the only word to really describe it. I never realised before arriving at that retreat the subconscious shield I put up with women. Society has conditioned us to compete with one another; to compare, distrust and expect the worst in each other. At least, thatās what I was unknowingly carrying.
Five days at that retreat unravelled all of that mental wiring. I connected with sisters I never knew I had. Women who lived their lives with such openness, vulnerability and compassion that I simply wanted to be near them. These women saw me in a way I had never felt seen before. I balled my eyes out at that retreat. I released a lot. Even now, the memory of that retreat brings tears to my eyes. I left wondering if Iād ever have a similar experience again. Could I be so lucky? Yes, I could!
When I found a womenās yoga retreat on the Gold Coast, I knew it was time to gather again. I used my tax return to invest in myself. Last year was really hard with some of my female friendships. I needed my faith restored in sisterhood. And it was. 9 beautiful women gathered, all there to explore themselves, be open and raw. Sometimes that feels easier in a group of strangers...
We laughed, talked, listened, cried, breathed, meditated, swam, journaled, did yoga, ate, slept. We reconnected with the simple pleasures in life. And from all this, here is what i know: The feminine spirit is strong. It is alive, but often in our everyday life, we lose touch with it. We stop seeing it in each other. We become embarrassed to express how we really feel. We stop prioritising time for vulnerability with one another. We become ātoo busy.ā And over time, we drift away from that feminine spirit that bonds us.
We as women need to create more opportunities to gather together in ceremony. Not to talk about our jobs, our kids, Netflix or to gossip, but to go deep and open our souls. To hold space for each other to be vulnerable. When women gather to connect in this way, great things happen.
@ Currumbin, Queensland, Australia