28/01/2022
Such a great take on how mindfulness can be the most important part of the equation when it comes to eating well ❤️
When my friend Ed wanted to stop smoking, a Zen master told him that he needed to love smoking first. "Create a ritual each time you smoke," the teacher said. "Notice how every inhale feels in your mouth and your throat. Notice if you like it. If you love it. Only when you give it to yourself completely can you completely give it up."
"That's so intelligent," I told Ed, thinking of the parallels between smokers and emotional eaters. Of course, we can't give up eating altogether, but it's true that we can't stop emotional eating until we really love food. And in my experience, emotional eaters — those of us who eat for reasons besides hunger — don't actually like food.
I know you're probably thinking: My problem is not that I don't like food, but that I like it too much. That I think about it every moment. My problem is that I'm over the moon about food. I need to start enjoying it less, not more!
But think about it for a moment.
When you love something, you spend time with it. You pay attention to it. You enjoy it. And although most of us emotional eaters think incessantly about food, we consume meals as if they are stolen pleasures. As if we are not really allowed to have them, let alone have rollicking times eating them.
When the pleasure stops, the overeating begins.
But there is another way to live with food. It's called eating with gusto, joy, and pleasure.
Now we've gotten to the core belief: Emotional eaters and/or those of us who feel as if we are overweight are not supposed to enjoy food. We are supposed to skulk around, eating food that tastes like leather. Better yet, we should be eating astronaut food: freeze-dried pellets of desiccated vegetables.
Imagine what your life would be like if you took time to truly savor what you eat. If you felt entitled, no matter what you weighed, to eat with gusto. You may discover that foods you loved — as well as those you didn't — truly do give you pleasure, and there's no price tag attached. And that's how it should be. Since you need to eat to live, why let one moment of joy — even one — pass you by?
This is an edited version of "The Art of Deliciousness." You can read the full article here: https://geneenroth.com/articles/