17/10/2019
Johann Hari quote is in line with our work with clients:
“ Depression and anxiety might, in one way, be the sanest reaction you have. It’s a signal saying- you shouldn’t have to live this way, and if you aren’t helped to find a better path, you will be missing out on so much that is best about being human.
That afternoon, I found myself thinking again about so many of the people I got to know on this journey-and one in particular. Joanna Cacciatorre lost her baby daughter, and she felt the deep sorrow that is natural and right when you have felt deep love and it has been taken from you. Yet she watched as grieving people were told- officially, by psychiatrists- that if their profound distress persisted after a short window, they were mentally ill and needed to be drugged.
Joanne told me that grief is necessary. We grieve because we have loved. We grieve because the person we have lost mattered to us. To say that grief should disappear on a neat timeline is an insult to the love we have felt.
Deep grief and depression, she explained to me, have identical symptoms for a reason. Depression, I realised, is itself a form of grief- for all the connections we need, but don’t have.
And now I realised- just like it is an insult to Joanne to say that her ongoing grief for her daughter is a form of mental dysfunction, it was an insult to my teenage self to say that his pain was just the result of bad brain chemistry. It was an insult to what he had been through, and to what he needed.
All over the world today, people’s pain is being insulted. We need to start throwing that insult back in their faces- and demanding they engage with the real problems that need to be solved.”
Johann Hari, author of the book:
“Lost Connections. Why you’re depressed and how to find hope.”
Published 2018