30/01/2025
I wanted to share something God has been revealing to me.
What is Eternal Life -
John 17:3
(Jesus praying) And this is eternal life, that they know you, the only true God and Jesus Christ whom you have sent.
Matthew 7:21-23
“Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. On that day many will say to me, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name?’ And then will I declare to them, ‘I never knew you; depart from me, you workers of lawlessness.’
If I had been asked a few years ago what is eternal life, I would have said it is living forever - in heaven, with God. Eternal life is much more than a life of infinite length. It is a superior quality of life, marked by unbroken fellowship with God. This is one of God's great purposes for reconciling us to him through Jesus.
Eternal life is a deep knowledge of God, an intimate relationship that goes both ways. He wants us to know him and he wants to know us. Intimacy with him is demonstrated by the intimacy of a married couple making love, in the way God intended, not how the world says it should be. Too often Christians have a distorted view of s*x, having been more influenced by the world than by the Scriptures. In some circles, the topic of s*x is taboo and needs to remain behind closed doors - however we forget that the Bible is not silent about it.
To be naked, unashamed and knowing someone more intimately than anyone else, you can't hide anything and you are completely vulnerable and needing to trust each other.
What God desires is that we move beyond "head knowledge" into the most intimate relationship with him, similar to the husband/wife relationship. That’s why in the bible ‘knew’ equals to ‘made love to’.
The world has distorted the idea of what making love means and if you don't truly understand it, or have never experienced it yourself the way God intended, your view of this kind of intimate act has lost its true meaning. I know this as the majority of our married life was scarred by a distorted view of intimacy between a husband and wife and we both spent many years hurting.
After Brad's accident in September, God transformed both of us and miraculously transformed our relationship with each other. This included physical intimacy, healing years of hurt, pain and resentment.
As our individual relationships with God have grown, the deeper meaning of making love and how it corresponds to how our relationship with God is supposed to look has been incredible. We now know each other in ways that we have never experienced before, a depth and intimacy that is deeper than the physical. Please do not read that as it is perfect - God is still working in us and teaching us things as we walk this new path with him.
The relationship between Christ and the Church is referred to many times in the bible as that of a husband and wife - well how that relationship was designed to be by God, not the world's view of it which broken.
Ephesians 5:31-32
“Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.” This mystery is profound, and I am saying that it refers to Christ and the church.
How do we know God? Through his word and spending time reading, studying, meditating on and talking about it. Growing in understanding of who God is, his promises and his history of keeping them. His nature, his attributes, his heart. It is so much more than the "God Loves You, so you are all good" that is professed in many churches. I lived many years in that superficial world and always wondered at the lack of transformation in my life.
As I read more of the bible and really think and ponder what is being said not just reading it so I can tick a box, I have a deeper knowledge and understanding and trust in God. I find myself talking to him throughout the day regularly. As I dig deeper, my desire to know him more grows. It's like a beautiful outpouring from him, the more we earnestly seek him and understanding the more he gives and the more we want. He promised that we will find him if we seek him with all our hearts.
Hosea 6:3
Let us know; let us press on to know the LORD; his going out is sure as the dawn; he will come to us as the showers, as the spring rains that water the earth.
*Press on - follow after, pursue, chase, run after
Galatians 4:8-9
Formerly, when you did not know God, you were enslaved to those that by nature are not gods. But now that you have come to know God, or rather to be known by God, how can you turn back again to the weak and worthless elementary principles of the world, whose slaves you want to be once more?
Jeremiah 9:23 -24
Thus says the Lord: “Let not the wise man boast in his wisdom, let not the mighty man boast in his might, let not the rich man boast in his riches, but let him who boasts boast in this, that he understands and knows me, that I am the Lord who practices steadfast love, justice, and righteousness in the earth. For in these things I delight, declares the Lord.”
When you "know" God intimately, which is what he wants, you have a taste of eternal life here on earth. I knew about him and knew of him, but I didn't "know" him. Each day he is growing my knowledge and intimacy with him. You can know him too - he is calling you to him. "Press on" to seek him and you will find him.