21/03/2026
Imagine being given the wrong solution for a problem your body has been screaming about for years.
You were told to squeeze. to strengthen. Doing your kegels every day, the leaks would stop.
So you did. faithfully. for months. Maybe years have passed and nothing has changed, or it has gotten worse. And you blamed yourself.
Here's what no one told you: for most women with incontinence, the pelvic floor isn't too weak. It's too tight. And squeezing a muscle that's already in chronic tension doesn't fix the problem; it deepens it.
That's not your failure. That's a failure of the information you were given, as a PhD-trained pelvic floor physiotherapist, I've spent over a decade watching women exhaust themselves doing the wrong thing, because the right thing was never explained to them.
You weren't doing it wrong. You were doing the wrong thing.
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