Happy Heavenly Parenting - Children as Mirrors to Our Healing

30/07/2025

Hello beautiful friends, cherished family, and dear customers,

You might’ve noticed I haven’t been on here much, so here’s a little update on where my time’s been going lately! ☺️

I have been enjoying a glorious experience of styling through full soul expression, matching my clothing to the essence of who I am and allowing more of me to come alive to engage in the world as my truest most authentic, expression of self.

I’ve been using the Kibbe Body Type system, along with Muscle Testing, and a Kinesiology scan chart I designed, to find the exact colours, shapes, shoes, outfits, and accessories that not only match the unforeseen truest parts of me, but activate and enhance the qualities that have more significantly been dormant.

One of these qualities has been to awaken my strength in power and beauty. The healing that occurred by putting on an outfit and allowing the full feeling of how I felt in it was enough to create the true quality of myself, and this attribute, to come forward.

Aligning with my soul essence in how that works for me has been exhilarating. I have been able to literally shift my experience of myself, my expression out in the world, by putting on a dress that hadn’t jumped out at me before. I drew it in at the waist with a belt and delighted in the turtleneck line, as it brought me into a clear steady “I mean business” state, I could feel the essence that truth come alive. I discovered the cuts that frame my collarbone welcomed my shoulders into view, how my posture felt incredible and that my body drank it in - grounding me, deepening my breath, and aligning the health of my body, effortlessly. It was as though I’d dressed in truth and had easier access to the real me.

*continued in the comments for the avid readers.. 😜

11/06/2025

PARENTS. If you’ve been trying to “have more fun” with your kids but it just feels soo hard and you’d rather run away or distract yourself, this might be why:

It’s not that you’re not fun.
It’s that the part of you who used to play, might still be buried under old survival patterns.

When we weren’t allowed to be silly or soft as kids… we grow up thinking joy is a luxury, not a birthright.

But the truth is:
Your ability to enjoy your children grows when you feel safe enough to enjoy yourself again.

It’s not about doing more.
It’s about softening into the parts of you that never got to play. Finally let them out.

And as you do that, your joy returns.
Not just through them.
But through you. For you.

✨ If that speaks to something in you, I invite you to book a session.
We’ll gently untangle the past and release what’s been holding you back, so your present can feel lighter and way more fun.

Go to my link in bio to book a call with me 📞
You deserve to enjoy your life too.

Hear that?
It’s the sound of cycles breaking 🪢

11/06/2025

01/05/2025

Our parenting and willingness to guide a group, be it family or work, is shaped more by our past than we realize.

🌱 If you find yourself overwhelmed by your child's emotions, repeating hurtful phrases you once heard, or feeling intense guilt after disciplining, these can be signs of unresolved childhood trauma. It doesn't mean you're failing.
It means there's healing waiting to happen, and you're being asked to move forward with growth.

🧡 Our kids mirror what still needs our attention, offering a powerful chance to grow.
Parenting with awareness allows us to break cycles, build deeper connections, and raise emotionally healthy children, all the while healing our own inner child along the way.

🦋 You deserve that peace, too. ✨


Journey

01/05/2025

Our parenting and willingness to guide a group, be it family or work, is shaped more by our past than we realize.

🌿 If you find yourself overwhelmed by your child’s emotions, repeating hurtful phrases you once heard, or feeling intense guilt after disciplining, these can be signs of unresolved childhood trauma. It doesn’t mean you’re failing. It means there’s healing waiting to happen, and you’re being asked to move forward with growth.

💛 Our kids mirror what still needs our attention, offering a powerful chance to grow.

Parenting with awareness allows us to break cycles, build deeper connections, and raise emotionally healthy children, all the while healing our own inner child along the way.

🦋 You deserve that peace, too. ✨

30/04/2025

The journey to becoming a peaceful, connected parent begins within. 🌿

We must first release the pain, the fears, and the wounds we carry from our past. Healing isn't just for us — it's a gift we pass down to our children. 🤍

When we let go of what no longer serves us, we create space for love, patience, and freedom to bloom.

You are not your past. You are the cycle-breaker.

You are the light bearer and you always have been, now you get to remember by freeing yourself from the wounding, having grace and committing to your future.

Heal yourself, free yourself... and watch your children thrive in the safety of your love. ✨



DM or book a call with me here: https://calendly.com/crystal-mcwilliam/20mindiscoverycall

29/04/2025

Cycle-breaking isn’t about being perfect — it’s about being present, patient, and willing to heal. 🌿

Some days will feel heavy. Some days will feel like beautiful breakthroughs.
Either way, every small step you take is powerful.

You are not alone. You are doing sacred work that your future generations will thank you for. 🤍

Be gentle with yourself. You deserve the same love, grace, and forgiveness that you offer to your children.

Your healing is changing everything, the results will soon be clear and the work you are doing, sooo worth it.

Keep going. ✨

Link in bio 🔗
https://calendly.com/crystal-mcwilliam/20mindiscoverycall

29/04/2025

Cycle-breaking isn’t about being perfect — it’s about being present, patient, and willing to heal. 🌿

Some days will feel heavy. Some days will feel like beautiful breakthroughs.
Either way, every small step you take is powerful.

You are not alone. You are doing sacred work that your future generations will thank you for. 🤍

Be gentle with yourself. You deserve the same love, grace, and forgiveness that you offer to your children.

Your healing is changing everything, the results will soon be clear and the work you are doing, sooo worth it.

Keep going. ✨

I am here: https://calendly.com/crystal-mcwilliam/20mindiscoverycall

08/04/2025

Childhood trauma doesn’t just live in the past—it lingers in our habits, relationships, and the way we show up as parents. 💔

If you find yourself constantly people-pleasing, struggling to connect, or holding yourself to impossible standards… you're not alone. These are signs your inner child is still calling for healing. 🌱

You can break the cycle. You can create a different future for you and your children.

✨ Awareness is the first step. Healing is the journey.

💬 Let’s talk about it. Drop a 💛 if this resonates.

06/04/2025

6-Week Special for Parents Ready to Reparent Themselves & Transform Their Family Relationships ✨

Parenting doesn’t come with a manual, but we can get pretty darn close when we heal from our own upbringing. Whether you’re navigating sleep struggles, tantrums, power struggles, or simply trying to be the parent you never had, true transformation begins within. You’ll get personalized support in breaking generational cycles and healing emotional wounds—so you can raise a new generation of emotionally healthy children.

Over the course of 6 weeks, you’ll:
✨ Reconnect with your inner child and heal past wounds that shape how you parent today
✨ Learn powerful tools to stop emotional triggers from taking over your reactions
✨ Discover how to model emotional safety for your kids and create deeper, more connected relationships
✨ Break free from patterns passed down through generations and create a new emotional blueprint for your family
✨ Gain clarity on your parenting style and align your actions with your values
✨ Experience deep emotional healing and begin to rewire your nervous system for calm and balance

BONUS:
💬 WhatsApp/Messenger support between sessions so you never feel alone on your journey
📚 Exclusive access to helpful trainings, resources, and PDFs to support your growth every step of the way

This package is for parents who are ready to do the deep work, so they can stop repeating the past and start showing up as the parent they’ve always wanted to be.

Are you ready to create lasting change in your life and family?
DM me “READY” to claim your spot today and take the first step toward healing!

03/04/2025

Parenting isn’t just about teaching—it’s about connecting. Those silly moments, the inside jokes, the uncontrollable giggles… that’s where the magic happens. ✨

When we laugh with our children, we show them that home is a safe space for joy, love, and being their true selves. These little moments of connection become the memories they carry forever. 💛

So let’s put down the stress, be present, and enjoy the beautiful chaos of parenthood—one laugh at a time!

What’s the funniest thing your child has done recently? Share it below! ⬇😂

📅 Schedule here: https://calendly.com/crystal-mcwilliam/20mindiscoverycall

02/04/2025

The Biggest Lie About Childhood Trauma 🚨

They told us our past has no impact on how we parent or live as adults. But the truth? Childhood trauma doesn’t just disappear—it shapes our reactions, our relationships, and even how we raise our children.

✨ If you struggle with emotional regulation…
✨ If your child’s emotions trigger unexpected frustration…
✨ If you find yourself repeating patterns you swore you’d break…

You’re not alone. But healing is possible. When we become aware of our wounds, we gain the power to break the cycle and build a healthier, more emotionally free future.

💡 It starts with YOU. Ready to rewrite your story?
Drop a ❤‍ in the comments or DM me—let’s talk. 💬