17/12/2025
Another beautiful birth story, thanks Paris for sharing & welcome baby Sydney.
"Calmbirth was everything. The breathing techniques carried me through every surge, and the hip squeeze (oh my word, that hip squeeze!) was pure magic. If no one was pressing my hips during a contraction I’d get genuinely upset – it was the one thing that made intense pressure feel bearable. Calmbirth gave me unshakeable confidence in my body and the tools to stay calm and powerful, no matter how the path changed."
Even though my birth didn’t go exactly as I’d dreamed, it was still utterly magical, deeply special, and overwhelmingly positive.
We had planned the most gentle home birth with our incredible independent midwife Michelle from Her Choice Midwifery. But at 42 weeks we chose to have a check-up ultrasound, just to be sure everything was okay. The scan showed low amniotic fluid, and after a long conversation with Michelle we decided to transfer to hospital for further monitoring and to discuss next steps. In the end we chose the cautious path and agreed to an induction that night.
They started with the balloon – I was already 1.5 cm dilated – and it fell out within an hour. Next came the prostin tape, and wow, did that kick things off! I was offered a sleeping tablet so I could rest, but by 2:30 am I was in full-blown labour. Panadeine Forte did absolutely nothing, so the midwife suggested a hot shower. Around shift change the new midwife realised the tape had worked a little too well – I was having six contractions in ten minutes. Thank goodness for the TENS machine; it was a lifesaver in those early hours.
At 6 am I was transferred to the birth suite. They removed the tape and found I was already 4 cm. Finally I could call my dream team: my doula Sharni, Michelle, and my husband Ben. Half an hour later my waters were broken and – surprise! – I was already 6 cm. The hot water of the shower and the gas took the edge off beautifully.
By 9:30 am I started involuntarily pushing. At 10:30 Michelle began gently coaching me because little Sydney’s heart rate was dipping with each contraction. We tried every position, but by 11 am it was clear his big, beautiful head (38.5 cm!) needed a bit of extra help to navigate the final stretch. With full trust in the calm team around me, I agreed to an episiotomy and vacuum assistance. At exactly 12:00 midday, Sydney entered the world weighing a very healthy 4.42 kg. The room filled with tears, laughter, and the most incredible relief and love.
Physically, the intensity was unlike anything I’d ever experienced, yet my body knew exactly what to do – labour progressed so quickly and powerfully with almost no medical pain relief at all. Emotionally and mentally I went deep inside myself; I became almost completely non-verbal, totally focused and calm. Even though we’d left our home-birth dream behind, the hospital birth suite felt surprisingly peaceful and respectful – dim lights, quiet voices, and a team that truly honoured my wishes.
Calmbirth was everything. The breathing techniques carried me through every surge, and the hip squeeze (oh my word, that hip squeeze!) was pure magic. If no one was pressing my hips during a contraction I’d get genuinely upset – it was the one thing that made intense pressure feel bearable. Calmbirth gave me unshakeable confidence in my body and the tools to stay calm and powerful, no matter how the path changed.
Sydney’s birth taught me that “your birth” doesn’t have to look like the picture in your head to be perfect. Mine was strong, surrounded by love, and filled with trust – in my body, my baby, and my team. I’ll remember it as one of the most empowering, sacred days of my life.
Paris & Ben