09/04/2026
What do you do when it feels like everything in your life is without warning turned on its head?
When your health suddenly diminishes due to illness, when your relationships take an unexpected hook turn that catches you off guard, when your work dries up overnight.
Do you fall into self pity? Blaming everybody else for what’s going wrong?
You wouldn’t be alone in that.
It’s my go-to thinking. Every. Dang. Time.
But I know myself enough to recognise this is simply my easy to reach childhood response and that it’s up to me to shift out and sort out.
So often we get stuck in the unfairness of something happening to us that we forget that we are the only ones who can actually fix it.
So if you’re in the unfairness right now, or you land there tomorrow, or next week, or next month, I hope you remember at some point that you are the master of your life and you have the key to change everything.
In real terms, just move.
It doesn’t have to be big. Just choose one actionable thing. Make the phone call. Eat the apple over the chocolate. Put your phone on charge and walk around the block.
Taking charge of the small actions are what get us to the big ones.
I believe in you and your ability to change
🫶 Evangeline