Jacki Fitzsummons- Earth angel healings

06/05/2025

03/05/2025

🔹️Playing small
🔹️Over thinking and Hypervigilance
🔹️Over apologising
🔹️People pleasing
🔹️Self Sacrificing
🔹️Putting other people's needs, wants and desires above your own.
🔹️Not being able to speak up.
🔹️Numbing, disconnection and disassociation

Are all survival/safety mechanisms that can be used to keep us safe from actual or perceived danger.

They can also be Outdated Generational Feminine programming.

You may have grown up and/or experienced relationships where you had to walk on eggshells, you were taught not to rock the boat and felt responsible for keeping the peace- even worse gaslit and victim blamed if you ever spoke up about abuse in any form.

What happened to you is not your fault but it is now your responsibility to heal from it and it can be a long and hard road but every small step forward counts.

Recovery and the journey from dis-emowerment to empowerment can involve any of the following.

🩵 Psychology
🩵 Meditation and Mindfulness practice.
🩵 Positive affirmations
🩵 Tapping and Somatic healing
🩵 Dancing, singing and fun gentle exercise
🩵 Reiki- a relaxation technique/energy healing.
🩵 Breathwork
🩵 Theta Healing- to work on releasing old Subconscious Beliefs/Programming.
🩵 Massage
🩵 Connection with nature- Swimming in waterfalls and the beach can naturally cleanse your energy/calm your nervous system with the sounds and grounding your bare feet into the earth.
🩵 Connection and laughter with loving, trusted friends and family- those that make you feel safe, support you and fill your cup.
🩵 Journaling to get the repetitive thoughts out of your head- then burn and release.
🩵 Be creative and channel your feelings/depth/quirkiness/authenticity with art or creative projects.
🩵 Learning to have strong and healthy boundaries. Making decisions for yourself that FEEL right for you and not feeling guilty about it. NO is a complete sentence.
🩵 If you have turned to drug and/or alcohol addiction as a numbing/disassociation strategy then please seek professional help. Drug and alcohol counselling, AA, NA or rehabilitation.
🩵 Practical safety measures to help you feel safe- Safety Apps, Security locks and cameras.

💜 Breath in the calm and peaceful energy.
💜 Breath out..... you've got this!

08/01/2025

It's been a while. I've been deep in hermit self healing and self preservation energy.

My new year's celebration was very different this year. It was the first new year's eve that I have spent completely alone. Over the Black new moon 🌚 it was the energy that was calling me, I went with the flow and followed Divine guidance.

I went to Kiva spa and spent 2 hrs of meditation/relaxation bliss and cleansing in the spa, sauna, steam room and plunge pool, followed by dinner for one and a night in of self healing love❤️.

I continued that alone time for nearly a week. Spending many hours of cleaning out the old to make space for the new in 2025. It has felt like one big reset. Although there have been many silverlinings, my life has felt like a mountain of tests and challenges. I have done the work. Healing everything that has arrised, facing my triggers and ending Karmic cycles.

I am definitely ready to start attracting my Divine Fate and Destiny and I'm ready for some smooth sailing from now on. I've spent some recent days with my spiritual soul sista and have been doing some heart healing and activations. Red was the healing colour for today. ❤️🌹❤️

May all your hearts be healed ♥️ from what or who has hurt you. May a divine kind of love find you- within yourself and within true Divine partnership. It is done. It is done. It is done. Thankyou Thankyou Thankyou 🫶🙏

09/08/2024

♡I forget I have wings♡

What a journey it has been over the last 2.5yrs! After nearly dying from cancer the year before I didn't think that I could go through much more. I didn't think that anything else would compare. And when the 2022 floods hit initially I thought you know what. I have survived Cancer! I have been through so much worse I can soldier on and get through this too. And even though I was cleaning out flood mud from my rental while having COVID and still caring for everyone else I still thought I have been through worse I can survive this too. This is nothing in comparison.

I didn't realise the degree of impact that this would actually have on me and my children. You see that little townhouse in West Ballina was our home, it wasn't flash but we had fallen in love with it over the 3 years or renting there and we had made it look beautiful. It was the very first rental that I had been approved of on my own as a single mum after my divorce. Most Single parents know how hard it is to be approved for a rental in this rental crisis and I secured a lease when I had a secure teaching job.

That place was Divinely presented to me. Number 111 with 2 frangipani trees in my little backyard significant of the 2 frangipani trees in my last backyard that I had to fight to save from my now ex husband wanting to cut them down every year. I was literally the only applicant for that house as it was known to be on the worst street in Ballina. I knew different. As I had ran past that complex for the last 6 years. It ended up being a beautiful place to live. All my neighbours were so friendly and supportive- even old Carol the strata queen had a soft spot for me. When I had the C word and was in recovery my neighbours sent me a card and continued to take my bins out for me for months. One of my neighbours was a nurse at Lismore hospital and even came into the pre-surgery room with me to help me calm down right before the biggest emergency surgery of my life. She didn't have to be there- she chose to come and sit beside me, hold my hand and speak calming, reassuring, hopeful words to me and for that I'll be eternally grateful. I've never had beautiful supportive neighbours like that before.

That was the first home where I could be myself freely, allow my creativity to flow and start my life's purpose as a Healer and Reiki Teacher. I set up my own healing room and conducted many healings and meditations from that space. I taught my first Reiki course from that home and it felt amazing! It set my heart and soul on fire and I just knew that this was my soul's purpose. I was gaining confidence and finding momentum. I felt the grounded safety and security of that home.

So once it was flooded, filled with mould, house condemned, lease cancelled and walls and kitchen stripped I didn't actually realise the degree of what had been lost until I've had a chance to land. Only now- 2.5 yrs later!!!

I didn't access emergency housing I found every place we lived on my own. Essentially I was homeless. When you are a single mother who has 2 small kids to protect and provide for the Adrenaline kicks in and you take the brunt of the stress on your own shoulders so your children can feel safe and don't have to worry too much. Firstly, I tried to stay living in the house until the mould got too bad and I realised that this was no longer a safe place to live so I bought a new tent and camp supplies, threw it in the back and took the kids on a camp adventure for a week. In that time a friend I knew was subletting her studio out in Byron for 3 weeks so we turned it into a holiday- riding the bikes to school and riding the solar train into town. In the last week I could feel the anxiety rising- where to go next?! I literally did a manifestation ritual and asked for the perfect home- a 3 bedroom house within 20 mins of Byron. Dreaming right? I put it out there anyway. I even asked to know on a particular date so I could stop stressing. I followed the intuitive steps and at 244am a lady messaged me to say that she had the perfect place for me housesitting her house in Suffolk Park!! Oh my goodness that place was heaven sent for us and there were so many Divine Signs. It was like the Garden of Eden! We needed a place to stay until she was ready to leave overseas so another generous lady in Byron offered her studio to us for 5 weeks walking distance to the kids school!

Even though I was so grateful for the Divine alignments I still had to move all our belongings and bond clean a studio on Mothers Day with 2 kids in tow on my own. As we moved into the new place we all got incredibly sick. Immy ended up having a 3am hospital visit with Croup and I think I had Influenza- I was so sick and weak I couldn't get out of bed and so their father came to take the kids. I had just been told that the flooded house was being condemned and that I was to move the remainder of my things that weren't damaged from the flood out. But to where?? No storage sheds available for hours as everyone was in the same boat! Literally.

So I spent most of my time in that studio travelling to Ballina to pack limited things into boxes, sort through and throw out alot, sell or give away my remaining furniture and clean what was left of my old home to hand back the keys. Im grateful that my little brother picked up some of my furniture to store at his house for all this time. Im also so grateful for my mate Matt coming to the rescue to help move some of our things into the new place at Suffolk to make it a home for what ended up being over 12 months. We are eternally grateful for the generosity we received!

Again although so grateful- you cannot ignore the impact that that type of stress has on your nervous system and within the first few weeks to months I just needed to rest, recover, heal and try to find that feeling of stability again. Phewwww. My mind was still all a blur and still in shock. What a beautiful place to heal though and I started doing my healing work again slowly and ran a few Reiki workshops from that magical space- the energy there was definitely powerful. I had been going to Conscious Connection Circles for a while and started meeting some beautiful like minded friends and going to Estatic Dance in Mullum. Life was feeling bliss!! I felt guided to offer some free Reiki Healings for Flood Survivors in Lismore as the devastation there was like no other and I ended up meeting a man at the place I was offering the healings. We became close and ended up having a very deeply, intense spiritually connected relationship and after only 5 months of knowing him the housesitting was up and I had to find another home. I tried and failed and the only other option other than being homeless was to move in with him. Within the 3 weeks of being there it turned toxic and I ran.

When you think you cannot take anymore right? I ended up on my beautiful friend Jazs doorstep with tears streaming down my face in hysterics, slept on her couch for a few nights- was Divinely aligned with a room in Lennox Head with another beautiful friend Ellie, Miraculously I found a storage shed and Generously Jaz's Dad and my lil brother helped me move- giving me all the help, support and protective energy I needed to get out and physically end that cycle. The mental and emotional healing definitely takes ALOT longer. When you think you have time to rest??? Ellie's lease was up in 3 weeks and I had to search for another place again! I helped her bond clean while continuing the endless search for a new home online. The anxiety begins to rise again with the stress of the where, why, how, when? Sets in.

I had seen a beautiful little cottage advertised for a short term stay in the National Park and I felt so drawn to it. I messaged even though numerous others had commented interest. I went for a trip to Coffs to get away, did a face time chat with the owner and dropped in on my way home to have a look. I fell in love! And I took it for 3 months. Oh my goodness it was so Rustic and Divine. Stain glass windows, a bath with French windows opening up to a view of the trees, a little balcony out the back to sit and have a cuppa and ground. The tranquil energy of nature was so healing. I literally became a hermit on my week without the kids and dived deep into self healing work.

On my week with the kids I had to leave home by 645am to drive the kids to the bustop in Ballina by 730am then I'd hang around all day until I picked them up. I spent alot of time doing healings in my car or laying on the river bank looking like a weirdo and alot of time on my laptop studying an online TAFE course and lined up some casual cleaning work to fill my time and try to get by which was a struggle with rent and so much petrol used driving. On my week with the kids I'd always make sure they were well feed and provided for while I literally fasted the next week- scraping by on 1 meal per day and getting very creative with what little food I had leftover. Even though it was so much change for my kids I always turned it into an adventure for them. Bush walking and exploring new towns.

Right before Christmas time was up and again the anxiety started rising. My son is the worrier and kept asking 'mum have you found us a new home yet?' All I could say was no, not yet, but I will and have faith that another place would Divinely show itself.... we were presented with a houseshare opportunity by a friend and all got cosy sharing a large room. I was so surprised at how well my children had learnt to adapt as their strength, resilience and understanding for me had increased. I have really enjoyed sharing a bed with my daughter and falling to sleep holding hands. As grateful as we were for a safe place to live we still needed our own space/home to feel free to be ourselves in our own energy and the Universe gave me a kick to push past my self doubt and start applying for a proper rental again in Lismore as the kids had moved schools.

I joined the rental search or scavenger hunt again (spell check- savage) with 50 people at 1 open house!!! I pulled my application together with thankfully lots of glowing references and applied anyway. Then played the waiting game with anticipation...to be let down...so I kept looking and looking and looking with hope in my heart and a deep need in my stomach. I reluctantly looked at this little place and believe that Divine Intervention happened. They had already had an open house and application process and chosen applicant but the applicant fell through so It was back on the market with no real interest anymore. That all happened before I was actively looking. I transferred my application over and got APPROVED! Wow.

Our first proper permanent rental and stable home since being flooded 2.5yrs ago- we have been through the moving and cleaning process 8 times in that time!!!!!! Cosmic things start happening when I'm in my own energy, when I'm free to be me and express all I am without Judgement. My kids have started to sing and dance again with excitement and have had fun setting up and decorating their room. Obviously my nervous system is still going to take some time to fully relax and land after all that but It feels amazing to finally have our own home again. Its definitely true what I have learnt from Psychology about Maslow's Hierarchy of needs. Your base level needs are vital for your well-being. (Food, shelter, safety and security) if these base level needs are not met or unstable then its quite hard to achieve much else in your life. It's definitely been a journey full of big hard lessons, challenges and now a deeper resonance for others that have been through similar experiences. Facing homelessness is one massive fear to face. And during this very challenging time its also shown me who my true friends and family are. Who's always got my back and who turns their back. Who has the ability to empathise and who has no compassion or empathy at all.

It's also reminded me that I do have wings I just sometimes forget. But the Divine keeps reminding me over and over again.
Thankyou, Thankyou, Thankyou forever more.

08/08/2024

Thankyou Melanie Jean for being my 88 lions gate portal date! Hehe

We did a little cacao ceremony, healing meditation and manifestation ritual this morning together to harness this powerful cosmic energy. Thankyou for being the best cosmic soul sista that a girl could ever ask for!!!

The lions gate portal is an astrological alignment that happens on the 8th day of the 8th month every year but is particularly powerful this year as its an 8 year too!

The number 8 in numerology and angel numbers represents infinity, abundance and alignments. The lions gate portal is a massive cosmic alignment where the Earth, Sun, Star Sirius, Orion's belt and the Great Pyramids of Giza align allowing powerful, higher dimensional energies and frequencies to come to this planet.

The veils are thin and this heightened energy can bring in rapid spiritual awakenings, upgrades, activations and open heart consciousness. A powerful time to heal, let go of any remaining stagnate energy, close out remaining negative karmic cycles and make way for these higher frequencies to download.

During our healing meditation we did an energetic/spiritual cleanse and brought us into alignment with our Higher Divine path, purpose, partnerships, fate and destiny. 444😇💜 Utilising the strong lions energy, we manifested our Divine Abundance, Divine love and Divine Health and Beauty.

We are open and receptive to receive the spiritual, energy and frequency upgrades and activations from this powerful Lions gate portal energy that are Divinely meant for us. Focusing on Heart expansion, deeper soul connections and higher level relationships, strong intuition and telepathy.

Take some time to ground barefoot in nature, cleanse in the ocean, download Divine light codes for the sun, dance and sing and float around in this high vibrational blissful energy today.

After this ceremony the Kookaburras sung. (Our healing spiritual sign.) And we had a telepathy moment that lead to this post. Divine confirmation. I saw 2 pigeons this morning- Pigeon Pair- Divine Counterparts. And 2 eagles circling at the Bay this afternoon.

😇🤍😇🤍😇🤍😇🤍😇🤍😇🤍😇🤍😇🤍

28/07/2024

Relationships are a massive part of the healing journey. The relationship we have with ourselves, friends, family, colleagues and romantically and the health/security/harmony of those relationships can all come back to the energy within you.

We cannot control the words, actions and behaviours of another person but we can control our own energy and how we respond to/connect with and relate with ourselves and others.

What has happen to us in our past, particularly our childhood may not have been our fault but it is our responsibility to heal, balance/cleanse our own energy and regulate our own emotions.

We have all experienced some degree of trauma and have wounds from our past and even past lives. It is our responsibility to reflect on those wounds, learn to understand them and work on healing/releasing them so that we can show up as the happiest, most secure loved up version of ourselves in life and for our current partner or potential future partner.

We all have attachment styles, imprinting, coping and soothing mechanisms that have been created from our childhood. Its our job to reflect on those and work on shifting to healthier, more secure versions.

The list goes on and is unique to everyone. The more you consciously face your triggers/issues, trace them back to the root cause and heal what arrises in your life, the more layers you pull back and release the more secure, stronger and more confident you will start to feel within yourself.

Regardless of your childhood experiences and what your parents/caregivers provided for you or not we all actually have an inner parent and that Inner Parent can be trained to pour into our Inner Child ALL of the nurturing love, support, compliments, connection, wisdom, healing, safety and validation that we may have needed as a child.

We all have an Inner Love and Happiness Cup and when we can learn to fill our own cups ourselves then any offerings of love and happiness from another will turn into an overflowing abundance of love and happiness within our union.

We will also feel so secure within ourselves that we can say NO to any person and relationship that seeks to drain and sabotage our energy. 😇🤍

27/05/2024

Our Guardian Angels always give us messages in the most mysterious ways!
Yesterday was my birthday and I was on the phone to my dear friend. I heard a beep and must have pressed something with my ear. My phone had somehow gone into the photo gallery, selected search and then typed a , in the search bar. I deleted the , and then some how it took me to a burst of blurred photos under the search 'burst' I did not write this? Nor knew that you could search for categories in your gallery, nor knew that my phone could take burst photos?! (6 photos in a second)

I thought this is significant and had to look into the photos that I'd been mysteriously guided to- so I opened them. I could not identify where I was? What house I was in?

So I was guided to open the photo details. I saw that it was Halos birthday! We were having a cake for his birthday and the photo was taken at 433 which is a sign that my angels are with me and I am guided and protected by the assended masters. Lots of angelic love in that number.

I took all this as a very Cosmically guided message that Halo- my angelic son was saying Happy Birthday to his mumma. Wow.
😇💙😇
Thankyou baby boy.
The world works in mysterious and magical ways. 😍

24/05/2024

Enjoy the full moon this evening! So much is coming up for release. Ask yourself what in your life has run its course? What can you no longer tolerate? What old conditioning or pattern do you wish to break free from?

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20/05/2024

♡ The physical Proof of Reiki Energy ♡
For Mothers day I bought a bunch of pink roses. They were all of the same quality, placed in the same water with the flower food added. At night time I removed 2 roses from the bunch. They came with me and were placed on the bath head as I had a long bath with a meditative Self Reiki session. I then took them to the next room and laid them on the bed as I sent a lady some distance Reiki energy with some Divine Codes of protection. They probably unintentionally received around 3 hrs of Reiki healing energy. Afterwards I returned them to the vase with the other roses. This afternoon I looked at the vase beside my bed to see all the other roses have ran their course and died. But these two Roses at the front- the ones I included in my Reiki Healing sessions are still in a full healthy bloom.
Wow.
It's nice to see the physical effects of Reiki energy. 💗🌸💗

20/05/2024

We are all placed on this Earth as unique individuals with a set of Divine soul contracts that are unique to you. Those Soul contracts contain your fate, destiny, your Divine life path, purpose and partnerships, life lessons that will ignite your souls growth, Karmic lessons, debts to be paid or Divine rewards to receive.

It may take you a while to discover your Authenticity- the essence of who you truely are & why you are here. It takes alot of confidence & assertiveness to be able to step into your Authentic Truth & to be able to fully own and express all parts of you.

It can take deep Inner work and personal growth to get there especially if you had an abusive, traumatic, challenging or suppressed childhood.

Basically if you were brought up in a family or environment where you were truely loved in every way, nutured, where your self esteem/worth was built up, you were taught how to have healthy boundaries & emotional expression, encouraged to explore yourself, your natural interests, gifts, talents and beliefs then you may have found the Divine Essence of who you truely are sooner. In saying that every life experience has moulded you into the person you are right now, possibly deepened your empathy for others who are going through or have gone through similar challenges & brought you closer to your True Divine Life's path, purpose & towards knowing what your Authentic truth is.

As we are all unique Individuals who have gone through a unique set of life experiences we are all viewing life through our own lense. We all have & are allowed to have our own views, perspectives, belief systems and truth that feels right to us personally.

It has possibly taken many massive life altering experiences to solidify what your Authentic Truth is. What feels true for you.

I see so often when our Authentic Truth is different to another we are judged harshly, criticised, attacked even. We are told we are wrong. People argue that their truth is right and ours is wrong. They haven't walked a minute in your shoes, they do not know who you truely are nor what you have gone through so who are they to judge & argue with YOUR TRUTH. 💜

Keep being unapologetically you. 🤗

21/04/2024

♡Some Cosmic Truths- This Current Energy♡

The energies right now in the astrological cosmos are intense. Massive shifts are happening. You may notice that all of your shadows, unresolved pain, unhealed wounds and unresolved negative karmic cycles are coming to the surface right now to be seen, healed, released and resolved.

Many people's emotional states are unstable right now especially lightworkers, earth angels and chosen ones. It may feel as if you are having a mental breakdown, flooded with tears, depression, anxiety, panic and sleepless nights. You are experiencing a death and rebirth. All that needs to be released is being released in the most intense and dramatic way right now. Hold on. Stay in alignment. Stay in your truth and authenticity no matter what. This is a necessary shift and you are definitely not alone.

See it more as a breakthrough rather than a breakdown.
Ready to become a Phoenix rising from the ashes. You have to hit rock bottom before you can completely surrender to this Divine process and make a conscious decision about which future path and timeline you are going to take from this moment forward. It's a pivotal moment. You have free will here and from this place you have a choice- To take the Higher Timeline- Choosing a path of love, light and empowerment or the Lower Timeline where you will keep spiralling out of control and sink deeper into your toxicity.

In this energy right now all TRUTH is being revealed and exposed. KARMIC justice is taking place and negative Karmic cycles are coming to the forefront and we get to choose if we wish to break them or remain stuck in them. Old generational Karmic cycles that are no longer serving our highest and best good are being broken right now so that our future generations get to live in the energy of peace, true love, equality and harmony.

It's extremely hard and taxing work for the lightworkers of this Earth right now. We are fighting massive spiritual and ethical battles for the collective behind the scenes. I honour your work no matter what your work involves, how big or small your contribution, dedication and service is to help humanity right now I see and honour you. Keep going. Rest and ask for support when needed. Spend some time in nature to cleanse, recharge, reset then keep going.

These are BIG individual choices to make. But every choice you make in this current energy has massive rippling effects on not only yourself and your closest loved ones but the greater community. Like the butterfly effect. 🦋 Ones that may feel out of your comfort zone, going against what has been 'normal' for you or what has been deeply 'imprinted' into you subconscious and unconscious mind from birth. Radical decisions, change and transformation maybe necessary, requiring dedication, focus, growth and determination to get there. You may need an all or nothing or all in or all out approach.....but trust me it will be worth it.

The Spiritual Laws of Cause and Effect (Karma) and the Law of Reciprocity are highly activated right now so please make conscious decisions as to what kind of energy you desire in your life as what energy you give out is coming back to you- Good or bad- regardless of the situations you are in. What goes around comes around eventually in some shape or form.

In this current time space and reality right now you have to choose between the higher or lower frequencies, between the healthy or toxic, the conscious and connected or unconscious and disconnected lifestyles, the moral or immoral, love, kindness, empathy, understanding and compassion or hatred, resentment and revengeful attacks, between loyalty and respect or disloyalty and disrespect, between honesty or lies, between freedom or control/manipulation, between nuture and tenderness or harshness and abuse, between kind empowering words or belittlement and nastiness, between jealousy, envy and game playing or feelings of celebration and happiness for another persons success/abundance/connections, between toxic, controlling, dominating, aggressive Masculine energy or healthy leading, assertive, initiating, safe, protective Masculine energy, between toxic seductive, alluring, manipulative and fake Feminine energy or healthy loving, nurturing, compassionate, intuitive, healing, surrendering Feminine energy and between shallow, casual, meaningless, purely physical s*x or soul deep, soul enriching, deeply connected and loving unions.

There are no personal judgements for what energy you choose. I know what energy I'm choosing (the higher timeline) and will continue to stand firm in no matter what. The only judgement that is coming is from the Higher up. The Divine Source sees all. It doesn't matter how well you try to hide it in the 3D or how well you try to manipulate the truth or other's reputation so you won't be caught out. All truth is being revealed and exposed. You cannot really be living in both worlds right now- you have to choose one or the other with the exception of those occasions where you set clear and agreed apon intentions about the type of energy you wish to share within an interaction with another. As long as you are in your truth and integrity.

If you are currently choosing the Lower Vibrational Timeline, you have to ask yourself. If my choice in behaviour, actions and lifestyle is all exposed in this very moment right now can I accept the ultimate consequences and negative impact that would have on my family and/or closest loved ones? If the answer is No then I urge you to make drastic changes immediately and put a stop to it now. As every soul must face the ultimate TRUTH right now.

For all the Negative Karmic cycles that are coming to the surface you get to choose to break them or remain stuck in them with the understanding of what you remain stuck in will be passed onto your future generations. Eg. You maybe attracting disloyal, and dishonest partners into your life. Perhaps your parents or caregivers never really showed up for you in the way you needed or followed through with their word, kept you in the dark, possibly didn't communicate well or at all with you, abandoned you without explanation, there were alot of secrets or they could never own up to or take accountability for the truth. There are a mountain of possibilities here and this is not directed at my own or anyone in particular's childhood.

The first relationship we have with a man or woman is the one we have with our parents or caregivers and sets the scene for what all our future relationships look like or what we are attracted to because of 'imprinting' and childhood subconscious programs, or even pastlife relationship dynamics. The subconscious mind accepts everything that happens in your early years as the truth- 'This is my reality, this is what relationships look like, all men are like this, all women are like this.' Anything outside of our truth and reality feels foreign, unsafe, uncomfortable, an illusion, we see it as a threat or undeserving of it so we run from it and naturally attract a partner, lifestyle, cycles, dynamics that we experienced in childhood, we accept and allow behaviours into our own lives and relationships no matter how toxic they are as they were normalised as a child. Your parent or caregivers may have suffered from drug or alcohol addictions and you're unconsciously continuing the cycle within yourself or by attracting and accepting partners into your life with the same addictions with all the negatives consequences and unconscious behaviours that come with that.

You may have been cheated on, lied to and betrayed by ex partners and as a way of dealing with it your brain develops the programs that 'All people lie and all people cheat.' Once you accept that this is just part of your reality, you have to accept it and live with it and you actually feel okay with it in your mind as you expect no better, you deserve no better. This is life. You may then start to engage in the same behaviour out of revenge. 'Every person lies to me so I'll lie to everyone too.' 'Everyone cheats on me or my partner has cheated on me so I'll cheat on them too.' 'Everyone else does it and gets away with it so why not I join them? No one has been open and honest or loyal to me or taught me how to communicate effectively so I'm not going to be open and honest and loyal to anyone else and I cannot learn anything new that I was not taught or modelled in childhood.' Even if you are the 'other man' or 'other woman' who consciously chooses to engage in another person's relationship affair then you are still choosing that disloyal, dishonest energy and will remain stuck in that Karmic cycle and will continue to attract dishonest, disloyal, fake people into your reality. Regardless of how others choose to live, act and behave or what you think they deserve, you have to take full responsibility of your own energy and make a conscious effort that your own energy remains pure.

Karmic cycles that no longer serve our highest and best good CAN be broken. Subconscious programs can be pulled and replaced with more positive ones with Theta healing, I believe that our 'normal' and unhealthy 'imprinting' can be changed. I believe that anything can be learnt regardless of whether it was absent in our childhood or not. I believe that everyone is deserving of true love, respect, loyalty and honesty regardless of how foreign it feels we can learn to allow it in and trust in the person who's pouring that love into us. I believe that those full of addiction can become sober. I believe that radical forgiveness can break most revengeful Karmic cycles. (Forgiveness does not condone their sh*tty behaviour but instead understands that everyone is who they are for a reason and if they knew better hopefully they would have done better. Forgiveness is instead about being able to let go of all the pain and horrible feeling emotions from that event and let the person go so you can move forward with peace in your heart.) I believe everything happens for a reason and we do not meet anyone by accident. I believe we can turn our pain into purpose/wisdom and find the silver linings and learn the lessons from every relationship. I believe that we can harness the power and confidence to move from victimhood into an empowered state. I believe that we must treat everyone how we would ultimately like to be treated including ourselves. Sometimes setting clear boundaries and choosing to walk away from the type of energy that you DO NOT want in your future is very brave and a form of self love and self respect. I believe that you can clear alot of negative Karma and heal relationships with the ability to face your own toxicity, own and take responsibility for any words, actions or behaviours that have intentionally or unintentionally hurt another, sincerely apologise with remorse and ask for forgiveness while making a dedication to change with proven results.

This is all BIG and HARD work! But I believe in you. The energy you give out into the Universe right now and the conscious choices you make will come back and flood your life in an abundant way as the Karmic scales are balanced and Divine Destiny takes place. Choose wisely as your desired future depends on it. 😇🤍

Abundant love and light
Jacki Fitzsummons- Earth angel healings