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Safety and security are a blessing in this life,especially in a relationship.We all have scars, bumps and bruises from o...
12/12/2025

Safety and security are a blessing in this life,
especially in a relationship.

We all have scars, bumps and bruises from our past and to share these and your whole self to someone takes true courage and strength.

This is done only in hopes that the other person can meet you on that ledge, hold your hand and take the dive into the unknown, knowing that no matter what happens you have each other and that's all that matters.

But what happens, if that person says they'll meet you there and never shows?
Or they show but never jump?

This is the biggest risk, that you show all of yourself to someone and they aren't ready to see or hold that. To take that dive and for them to appreciate your scars, as a reminder they brought you together.

If you have the relationship that holds, sees and feels you, for who you are, then honour that.

And if you haven't yet, then don't worry, because I can assure you, that it's the work that you do on your own, that deepens the safety and security within.
This is what sets you up for that relationship and the most important thing you can bring.

People attract what they are ready to receive.
Don't stop until it feels safe.

If you have a question please feel free to reach out

I'm always here for a chat

Taylor

www.plumbplanes.com







How many signs resonated with you?

11/12/2025

1. They cling when they feel disconnected-

Closeness in anyway is safety for this person, regardless of how many of their own emotions they have to compromise to get it

2. They over-communicate to feel secure-
Oversharing to not only be heard but seen, in hopes to be rescued from the weight of uncertainty and reminded that their not alone

3. They fear abandonment or being replaced-
This person fears the isolation that comes with abandonment more than the act of being let go. The feeling of, how will they receive reassurance if they only have themselves

4. They overanalyse interactions-
This is not judgemental, it is in fact to make sure that they are doing everything right to ensure that they will be received and accepted

5. They seek reassurance often-
For them the relief that reassurance offers is a euphoric equaliser, calming the nervous system long enough to feel safe in this world no matter the source of reassurance

6. They struggle to self-soothe-
They have always outsourced the responsibility of self-soothing. Clinging, demanding or promising their way to external validation. Very little time has been taken to practice this alone

7. They take things personally-
They feel like even the smallest thing is a person attack. As if someone or something has gone out of its way for them to suffer. Thinking the world is against them, gives them an excuse to not have to sit with their emotions

8. They rush emotional closeness-
When they see someone has what they need emotionally they will go out of their way to get it. They will think all the pain is worth it, without realising that that person was only reflecting what they needed to give themselves

If you know someone that is anxious, just remember all they’re looking for is reassurance and if they overstepped any boundaries try not to take it personally.

If your anxious try and sit with your emotions before gripping to the closest person to you, I know it will feel strange but this is your teaching to self salvation

Everyone deserves to feel heard

Always here for a chat

Taylor

www.plumbplanes.com

If you feel like a gentle flow, a way to unwind and just connect with yourself then this yoga flow is exactly what your ...
30/11/2025

If you feel like a gentle flow, a way to unwind and just connect with yourself then this yoga flow is exactly what your looking for

Just head to www.plumbplanes.com or the link in the bio for this flow and many other free tools of connection

Enjoy

Taylor

If you’d like to take a little moment for yourself to just unwind and relax with some homemade musicThen go to the websi...
30/11/2025

If you’d like to take a little moment for yourself to just unwind and relax with some homemade music

Then go to the website in the link in the bio to access all the music, guided meditation and yoga

All free all for you

Hope you have a beautiful day

Taylor

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