Ben Crebert Psychology

11/05/2026

Ben has availability for new therapy and supervision clients, and is available for trainings and educational support. Visit our website to find out more, or send us an email.

→ www.bencrebertpsychology.com.au
→ admin@bencrebertpsychology.com.au
→ 0435 436 757

07/05/2026

A few years ago, a principal said to me: “What are you doing doing women’s work?”
It landed harder than I expected.

I’ve been sitting with what that question reveals about how we value care, how boys are trained out of tenderness, and how entitlement gets normalised (often quietly, often relationally).

I wrote about it here: https://bencrebertpsychology.com.au/what-are-you-doing-doing-womens-work/

If this touches something for you -whether you’re a man, a parent, a clinician, or just someone trying to live with more humanity - I’d love to hear what you notice.

bencrebertpsychology.com.au
admin@bencrebertpsychology.com.au
0435436757

29/04/2026

I love the attitude Ethan Hawke expresses here. There is a kind of friendliness and openness to the anxious or doubtful parts within. When we make a relationship with the parts of us we transform war and inner conflict into connection and creativity. Compassion flows within and the between us.

27/04/2026

The hardest cases aren't the ones in the textbooks. They're the ones where you feel something shift in your own body. Where the client's story touches something unresolved in you. Where you leave the session carrying weight you can't quite name.
This is the work beneath the work.

We don't just talk about interventions and treatment plans. We explore what happens in your nervous system when a client's trauma activates your own protective responses. We examine the moments when your theoretical knowledge can't reach the lived experience unfolding in real time.

Because your clients don't just need your clinical skills—they need you to be able to stay present when their pain is unbearable. To hold space when everything in you wants to fix, rescue, or retreat.

Here's what develops through experiential supervision:
• Recognising when your own process is interfering with the client's
• Somatic awareness of your therapeutic presence
• Trusting the wisdom of uncertainty and not-knowing
• Integrating Process Work principles into your relational approach
• Navigating complex trauma presentations with grounded confidence

Over 20 years of clinical experience. Board-approved supervisor. EMDR consultant in training.

Book supervision with Ben:
https://bencrebertpsychology.com.au/services/
admin@bencrebertpsychology.com.au
0435436757

21/04/2026

I have availability for new therapy clients - face-to-face or via telehealth.
I believe in your worth, even when you can’t see it. I believe in your innate wisdom and creativity, even when you feel stuck.
You don’t have to keep carrying the weight of the past or stay trapped in patterns that no longer serve you. Whether you’re navigating relationship challenges, parenting struggles, or feeling disconnected from your work or yourself, I’m here to help.
Through a compassionate and collaborative process, I’ll guide you toward healing, clarity, and fulfilment. Whether you’re seeking trauma therapy in Maitland or looking for support with relationship counselling in the Hunter Valley, we’ll work together to help you find your way forward.

To make an appointment, please get in touch:
→ www.bencrebertpsychology.com.au
→ admin@bencrebertpsychology.com.au
→ 0435 436 757

20/04/2026

Ben has availability for new therapy and supervision clients, and is available for trainings and educational support. Visit our website to find out more, or send us an email.

→ www.bencrebertpsychology.com.au
→ admin@bencrebertpsychology.com.au
→ 0435 436 757

13/04/2026

There's an old story about a lighthouse keeper's daughter who lived on a rocky island off the coast. Every night, she'd watch her father climb the spiral stairs to tend the light - trimming the wick, cleaning the lens, making sure ships could find their way safely through the dark.
One stormy season, ships kept running aground despite the lighthouse burning bright. The harbour master blamed the keeper - "Your light isn't strong enough" he said. "Burn more oil. Make it brighter."
So the keeper burned more oil. The light blazed. And ships still ran aground.
It was the daughter who finally climbed to the top and looked not at the light, but at what the light was revealing. The rocks had shifted in the winter storms. The safe passage had moved. The light was doing exactly what it was designed to do, but the question everyone was asking was wrong.
They kept asking: "How do we make the light brighter?"
She asked: "What is the light showing us? What's changed that we're not seeing?"

For 20+ years as a clinical psychologist, I've watched schools ask the same question the harbour master asked: "How do we fix this student's behaviour?"
More consequences. Stricter rules. Better behaviour management systems. Brighter lights.
And like those ships, students keep running aground.
Because we're asking the wrong question.

Neuroscience shows us that behaviour is communication about brain state.
When a student can't sit still, acts out, shuts down - their nervous system is communicating something. It's often not about the child being "difficult," but about unmet sensory, relational or systemic needs.
The rocks have shifted. The safe passage has moved. And the behaviour is the light showing us where..

If you're a principal, wellbeing coordinator, or educational leader who's tired of asking the same question and getting the same results, I invite you to ask a different question.
Not "How do we fix this behaviour?"
But "What is this behaviour showing us?"

Let's look at what the light is revealing - together.

📧 admin@bencrebertpsychology.com.au | 📞 0435 436 757

24/03/2026

I believe in your worth, even when you can’t see it. I believe in your innate wisdom and creativity, even when you feel stuck.
You don’t have to keep carrying the weight of the past or stay trapped in patterns that no longer serve you. Whether you’re navigating relationship challenges, parenting struggles, or feeling disconnected from your work or yourself, I’m here to help.
Through a compassionate and collaborative process, I’ll guide you toward healing, clarity, and fulfilment. Whether you’re seeking trauma therapy in Maitland or looking for support with relationship counselling in the Hunter Valley, we’ll work together to help you find your way forward.
To make an appointment, please get in touch:
→ www.bencrebertpsychology.com.au
→ admin@bencrebertpsychology.com.au
→ 0435 436 757

24/03/2026

Great opportunity to hear a good bloke doing good things.

🌟 Rare Public Community Event – Everyone Welcome!

I’m heading to Mandurah Baptist College this Wednesday night, 25th March, for a dinner and conversation about supporting young people, exploring how we can help them navigate their digital worlds and cultural challenges and how we champion them to thrive personally and in their relationships at every stage.

Most school events are for students and families, but this one is open to the whole community!

📌 RSVP and link details in the comments below.