21/02/2026
Once I got the hang of it, I loved interacting with Chat gpt. I found it immensely helpful for many things. I've brain dumped many a problem and annoyance into it, and been responded to in a way that was quite validating.
But it can become an echo chamber.
And it's telling the person with completely opposite views to you, that they are right too.
Mine is now programmed to challenge me, and it's not so agreeable all the time, which is great... But it's still not a person.
As both a therapist and a client, I've been part of rupture and repair experiences you just can't have with AI.
It's not just about the words said. It's how we read each other, how our nervous systems respond to having another human being fully present with us, how at the end of the day, both therapist and client are just two humans working to connect, and build an authentic relationship that serves as a place for wounded parts to begin to find wholeness again.
I've had many a session where I've checked in with a woman around something we'd discussed 20 minutes earlier, that I'd sensed might still be feeling a little open.
When there's particularly hairy stuff going on in her life, I follow up between sessions.
We can share real experiences in our real environment, together... Breeze on our skin, bird song, the overwhelm of deafening cicada noise, antics of the bird life... All these things allow for a kind of connection you are not going to get with AI... No matter how well it seems to 'know' you.
I'm not entirely anti-ai... If you set it up well, it can be really useful tool to help you debrief, consider options or find the best deal on something ... But it can never replicate the work that two humans can achieve in a quality therapeutic relationship.
Healing happens in relationship. Let's not lose sight of that.
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