11/08/2025
Recently I underwent a very common treatment for a problem I’ve been having with my hip, but it involved needles (dry needling) and in all honesty I was scared.
Will it hurt?
Will they hit some nerve that they aren’t supposed to be touching?
What if it’s all just quackery? 😉
Normally when I’m looking into medical treatments, I ‘research’ (ie look it up on Google) pretty extensively, and once I start seeing any mention of side-effects that sound scarier than I’m up for, it becomes a pretty solid no. This time I didn’t do *any* googling, I *really* want the issue resolved, so didn’t want to talk myself out of trying it. A friend told me it worked well for her, so that’s what I trusted.
Once I was in that room, my voice changed, my body language changed, I was scared and very, very uncomfortable. I came to realise that this wasn’t a middle aged woman who’d experienced far more pain than a skinny little needle throughout my life - instead it was a much younger version of myself who was feeling incredibly scared and vulnerable.
I got through the needles (didn’t hurt at all really – jury is out on whether or not I’m fixed just yet), and walked out of there feeling a little like a big baby, but completely intact.
Maybe you’ve had those moments too - when your reaction feels bigger than the situation, and you can’t quite work out why.
It’s not a weakness to feel this way, as much as it might feel like it is. It’s simply another part of you - often a younger part - stepping forward in the hope of keeping you safe.
When we start noticing those moments and getting curious about them, we begin to gather the tools to meet ourselves with more understanding. We start to see the patterns we’ve been carrying and contemplate how we might loosen their hold.
This is the kind of work I love: slow, gentle, and grounded in real life. And over the coming weeks, I’ll be sharing more about a small, in-person group I’m creating for women who want to explore this kind of self-discovery in a supportive, down-to-earth way.
You might be surprised at what you discover when you give yourself the space to listen in to YOU in a supportive group environment.