30/11/2025
ON TURNING 40
Forty laps around the sun.
In ancient times,
that was the average lifespan.
Over four decades I’ve been
an accountant, a musician,
a teacher, a Chinese Medicine Doctor.
I’ve travelled and treated people
from the poorest in remote corners,
to the richest - billionaires, celebrities and royals.
From hearing the purest laughter of a clear heart,
to seeing polished and empty smiles hiding agendas,
I've learnt that the happiest are rarely the wealthiest,
and those with the least often carry the most light.
I’ve loved deeply,
and lost painfully
to betrayal,
to tragic su***de -
the kind of pain that tears your heart in half,
yet awakens and rearranges
the person you thought you were.
And I still choose love.
Watching a small sprout
grow into a wise young man,
I've learnt the responsibility we hold
to raise a generation stronger,
not weaker, than ourselves.
Friends have come and gone,
but the real ones are those who've
seen me at my lowest,
and still stand by me.
If you are fortunate to meet even one,
honour and protect them, always.
I’ve met extraordinary human beings,
superhumans who defy gravity, science,
and turn belief upside down.
I've gone from thinking I was incomplete,
to realising I am whole,
and then realising
I actually know nothing at all.
What will the next forty years bring?
I honestly do not know,
and I will not take for granted that
I may even be given that long.
But this I do know:
Life is either a joke or a lesson.
Never betray yourself -
never do anything you know
your future self will regret.
Nurture your light.
Shine as brightly as you can,
until every part of you
has been given completely with integrity,
and there is nothing more left to give.
- R. Woo