16/04/2026
We live in a world that's becoming increasingly challenging and along with that a feeling of having to be tough to survive. A bit of dog eat dog mentality, that only the tough survive, and sometimes feels like The Hunger Games playing out in reality. And as women, there's a culture of having to be strong, to have to do everything for ourselves and not need a "masculine" figure to guide us which has become the norm as times change around us.
Comments like "Suck it up Princess", and "Take a spoon of cement " are often tossed around these days and increasingly more in women's circles. That to be soft is looked upon as being weak, and not of superior breed.
But this is a misconception that people often overlook, because to be soft in a world that is built for survival, is one where we see through the illusions, through the brute mentality and into love and empathy for ourselves and others.
To be soft is also to allow whatever is happening to occur, without force, with gentleness and grace and to grow into something amazing. To create from a place of inner strength in knowing ourselves and what we stand for.
I have gone through many identities over the years of trying to prove who I am, not really fitting in anywhere but always feeling different. But one thing I have come to accept and bodywork has helped immensely in accepting my softness, the feminine aspect of myself, is that when I drop into my heart space I can move mountains of energy within my clients. By being intuitively guided, my bodywork is not of traditional remedial massage. It is one of heartfelt feminine energy, with the help of my ancient ancestors working through me to hold my clients in complete safety and guide them to heal their bodies.
So ladies, this is your wake up call to soften into yourselves and accept all parts of who you are.
The journey continues.... π