18/08/2025
Welcome To Our August Newsletter
This month we are discussing Romance scams and how to spot them before it’s too late.
Although you might occasionally receive the classic "Nigerian prince" message asking for urgent help, identifying scams before falling for them can be tricky. Online interactions can be misleading, and it’s not always easy to know if the person you’re talking to is genuine.
Whether you're chatting on social media or through a dating app, it’s easy to get caught up in the excitement of a new conversation. While these platforms are designed to keep you safe, they’re not foolproof. The truth is, you could very well be talking to a scammer.
Think back to the advice we were all given (or shared with our kids) as the internet became more popular two decades ago: Don’t trust everything you see online.
So how can you tell if someone’s the real deal? Consider these questions:
• Do they show their face?
• Have you spoken to them on the phone?
• Can you trust what they’re saying?
Before sharing personal details—like your address, birthdate, or banking information—ask yourself these simple questions. Stay alert and protect yourself from falling victim.
Already Involved? Here’s How to Stay Safe
If you’re already in an online relationship and start noticing red flags, it’s never too late to reassess. Romance scammers often build emotional connections quickly, creating a sense of urgency or presenting a "too good to be true" situation to earn your trust. Here’s how to keep your guard up:
Watch for Red Flags
Scammers typically avoid phone calls or video chats. If you've never spoken outside of text or if they always have an excuse for why they can't meet, take notice. A sudden need for money or an urgent “emergency” can also be a huge warning sign.
Never Send Money
If someone you’ve just met online asks for money—whether it’s for travel expenses, medical bills, or “an investment opportunity”—it’s almost certainly a scam. No one should ask for financial assistance early in a relationship, especially from someone they’ve only met online.
Take Your Time
Scammers love to rush things, claiming they’re in love or urgently need your help. If someone is pressuring you to share personal information quickly or pushing for an in-person meeting, take a step back. Slow down and evaluate the situation carefully.
Talk to Trusted People
Getting emotionally involved online can cloud your judgment. Reach out to friends or family for their perspective—they might see things you don’t or pick up on red flags you’ve missed.
Verify Their Story
If their story seems inconsistent or they’re reluctant to share more details, that’s a sign to proceed with caution. Use reverse image searches to check if their photos appear elsewhere on the internet. If their story keeps changing or they avoid answering questions directly, it could be a scam.
Trust Your Gut
If something feels off, it likely is. Scammers often target people who are lonely or seeking a meaningful connection. If you sense something isn’t right, don’t ignore that feeling. Listen to your instincts.
What to Do if You Suspect a Scam
If you suspect you’re dealing with a scammer, end all communication immediately. Report the profile to the platform you’re using—whether it's a dating app or social media—and block the individual right away. It’s also important to report the scam to local authorities or fraud prevention agencies.
Remember, it's never too late to protect yourself. Stay vigilant, stay cautious, and always prioritize your safety. Your personal information is valuable, and you deserve to feel secure in your online interactions.
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