03/02/2026
Any participation in a relationship that involves one person over-giving (time, energy, effort, affection, resources) is just one person trying to compensate for what should be expressed by two. The taker partner is allowing themselves to be fawned over, somewhere deep down inside their negative ego believes they deserve the attention, while simultaneously separating themselves from any sort of responsibility for returning those feelings. Because the over-giver is clearly giving of their own free will, right? From the taker's point of view, you have set up a system that frees them from giving back. Indicating a very simple relationship preference their ego can sign off on.
One sided relationships are not sustainable but be aware they are a choice. Take love out of the equation for motivation, at some point it becomes a choice to over give. When you are not made to feel special in return, when your value is not seen and returned, you will have to remember your specialness and make decisions that benefit you and ONLY YOU.
Ironically you helped create a relationship where they do not have to recognize (never mind return) your feelings. You did not mean to do it, you thought your love was big enough for two.
To add insult to injury, they'll remind you of it when confrontation arrives: I'm sorry but wasn't it YOUR idea to do...etc. If you know, you know.
Better to cut the loss of a one-sided love than continue to fade like a wallflower.
One-sided relationships are a regular theme of tarot readings when read for the collective. As we get closer to V-Day, I know there are over-givers stressing out right now about the "perfect day" while the takers in their life might be secretly considering it a task to even show up. For your upcoming day of LOVE, make sure you are not the only quality source for it.
Past-present-future readings are out this week, and something to think about, the week after will be Intimate Tarot readings followed up with a Yours//Theirs, Sunday reading. What will I see for you during the week of love.
❤️ Good things, I hope 🤞
Christina "Sassy"
