The Epic Life Co.

The Epic Life Co. Life Coaching & Personal Development

This weekend I ran a boxing, breath and ice session not as a fitness class but as emotional training.The intention wasn’...
01/02/2026

This weekend I ran a boxing, breath and ice session not as a fitness class but as emotional training.

The intention wasn’t performance, it was learning how to feel, name, regulate and release emotion in real time.

What I noticed was this, most people don’t struggle with the intensity or the ice. They struggle with staying present with discomfort without trying to escape it.

Holding their breath, tensing, wanting it to be over and then when they slowed down, named what they were feeling and regulated their breath, everything changed.

Not because the discomfort disappeared, but because their capacity increased.

This is emotional resilience, not avoiding hard things, learning how to handle yourself inside them.

The feedback reminded me why this work matters so much, when people learn these skills in their body, not just their head, they realise they’re far more capable than they thought.

This is the work I teach with my 1:1 private clients and in my workshops.

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Most people I work with already know what isn’t working. They’re not confused.  They’re not waiting to be told what to d...
27/01/2026

Most people I work with already know what isn’t working. They’re not confused. They’re not waiting to be told what to do.

What they’re stuck in is the same internal dynamic playing out again and again.

People pleasing instead of being honest. Over functioning instead of asking for support. Staying quiet to keep things ‘keep the peace’. Losing yourself slowly while telling yourself it’s fine.

The pattern isn’t about who you’re with. It’s about how your nervous system responds inside connection. Until that’s seen and interrupted, nothing really changes, it just looks different on the surface.

That’s the work I do.

If this feels uncomfortably accurate, the Pattern Breaker Call is where we identify the exact pattern that’s running and where choice keeps disappearing for you.

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Most self aware people try to change behaviour.Stop people pleasing.Stop avoiding.Stop settling.But behaviour isn’t the ...
24/01/2026

Most self aware people try to change behaviour.

Stop people pleasing.
Stop avoiding.
Stop settling.

But behaviour isn’t the problem.

Behaviour is how your nervous system regulates an emotional pattern underneath.

People pleasing regulates fear of disconnection. Avoidance regulates fear of vulnerability.
Settling regulates fear of uncertainty.

Until you work at that level,
nothing really changes.

If you’ve tried to change behaviour and nothing sticks,
this is why.

This is the work I do.

Here’s the truth most self help skips.Patterns don’t repeat because you’re weak.  They repeat because they once worked.B...
18/01/2026

Here’s the truth most self help skips.

Patterns don’t repeat because you’re weak. They repeat because they once worked.

But continuing to excuse them keeps you stuck.

You’re not to blame for learning your patterns. You are responsible for breaking them.

That balance is where real growth lives.

Save this. You’ll need it next time you start blaming yourself.




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