
02/01/2022
In the face of a global existential health crisis, the past two years have forced me to deeply reflect on what is important to me and whether the things I’ve was pursuing was serving me and nourishing me or depleting and diminishing me.
Here’s the thing, when our actions don’t align with our priorities, we feel stressed. Unhappy. Exasperated. Unfulfilled.
Recognising this, I’ve realised that as a Coach, it’s not enough to ask my clients to list what outcomes they want. I need to know their core values, what sacrifices they’re willing to make and what changes they’re willing to set in motion. These allow me to facilitate behaviour change.
This is why I have asked my clients to audit their time. This exercise allows us to see whether they are sacrificing what is urgent for what is important. It also helps us to identify opportunities for change.
Here’s how to do it:
1. Track how you spend your time during the week.
2. Organise your behaviour by time spent (slide 2).
3. Add a secondary axis of priority and map out how you spend your time against how important those things are to you (slide 3).
4. Evaluate what needs to change. Start doing more of the things that are a priority and less of the things that aren’t (slide 4).
5. Evaluate new opportunities. When considering new ways to spend your time, ask yourself: “Does this align with my priorities?”
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