25/06/2024
Now come let's talk, now that it is clear to everybody.
By now, I hope we have all realised that women can cheat too, evidenced by the recent DNA mismatch palava that has been causing havoc in families lately.
Everybody, be that a man or woman, has the tendency of cheating, it takes only discipline and total arrest by the spirit of God for one not to cheat.
Before now, we used to hear....."it is in the nature of men to cheat, don't leave your marriage, it rains everywhere". Now we have realised that there is a gender that can beat you in that game.
Now this is not gender war....read carefully , I am about to open your eyes.
No woman, I repeat no woman born of a woman would know that the husband is cheating on her and be happy to accept it and remain virtous( this only takes grace of God with continuous back and forth on thoughts of revenge).
That kinda heart break a man goes through when he finds out that the child(ren) he has been spending on, investing emotionally on, bonded so well with, are not his......that is same heart break and emotional trauma a woman is thrown into when she notices that her husband is cheating on her.
Now, am I justifing cheating? No!!!!
Am I encouraging women to cheat too? No!!!
But have it in mind that whatever you do to your fellow human being has a way of coming back to you in folds.
Even God who created man and woman, created sβ¬x and marriage, deemed "cheating" fit as the only reason a woman or man should divorce their spouse.....this is because he knew the emotionally damaging effect that act (cheating) could have on the partner. We saw it and we call him stewpid, thinking we can outsmart him.
Cheating makes people bitter, people have k!lled for it, people have cheated back for it, people have developed mental health issues for it, and we still continue in this act till today not minding the consequences.
You see all those women that are aware that their husbands are cheating on them but choose to remain silent, they have plan B.....yes I said it with full chest. Except those extremely disciplined ones and those arrested totally by the spirit of God, believe me, their number is less than 5%.
Women who don't want to compromise their moral upbringing by allowing you push them into cheating back(thereby breaking their covenant with God), decide to leave the marriage for the sake of their peace of mind, mental health and their relationship with God.
With that been said...as a man there is nothing smart about cheating, put your family together and enjoy the wife that God has given to you. Dont try to play smart because you might be in for a big shock.
to be continued............