
26/08/2023
Before I had kids I thought “they’ll just have to fit in with us”. Obviously I now know how naïve I was. Having said that, I do think spaces where babies and kids are genuinely welcome and can come and join us whilst we do something for ourselves are, in reality, quite rare. I have often felt apologetic about my babies/kids or excluded by implication. Recognising the literally unending responsibility of being a primary carer means being inclusive where possible.
A meeting on Zoom where no one cares you’re breastfeeding.
An allied health practitioner who lets you bring your toddler.
A gym where people don’t bat an eyelid when you bring your 1 yr old and she joins in.
These places mean the impact of my recent separation has been lessened. I’m not excluded because I’m a single parent. I’m seen and included.
May parents never feel they have to apologise and may society become ever more embracing of diversity.