11/12/2025
TW death. Recently someone in our community passed away.
Every week I get messages and emails from people telling me how important my work is.
And there are many others out there doing this work too.
I know how difficult it is coming up against a system that really needs to change, but we have to keep fighting.
Autistic people deserve better support.
It is not my place to share what has happened here but I wanted to share this poem. This person did touch my life and I want them to be remembered here as part of our community. 💜
For You
We didn’t know each other well,
not in the way I wish we had.
We walked a similar path,
masking in the shadows,
but never found the moment
to speak it aloud together.
You once told me my work
meant something to you.
I wanted to hug you then,
to say I see you, truly.
But I held that tenderness back,
thinking it wasn’t my place.
I wish I hadn’t.
I wish I’d said it anyway.
The world didn’t hold you gently enough.
A system that should have protected you
Failed.
For You, I promise this:
your legacy will not fade.
It will live on in my work,
in every person I support,
in every fire I light
against the darkness you faced.
You will live on in my memory
as a spark,
burning bright within me,
guiding me forward
as I continue this work
for you, for me, and for everyone who needs it.
Love always Margo.
💜💜