02/12/2025
The myth of the ‘good mum’
Being a good mum has nothing to do with spotless houses, curated lunches, or perfectly calm mornings.
Lets strip back from aesthetic driven, pressure filled versions of motherhood that social media has created and replace it with real, grounded, cycle breaking, human motherhood.
When this often aren't what it really looks or feels like.
Motherhood doesn’t need to look perfect, polished, or Pinterest-ready.
It doesn’t need colour-coordinated storage tubs, daily routines written on acrylic boards, or children dressed like a neutral-toned boutique catalogue.
Motherhood is allowed to be messy, loud, slow, human, emotional, real.
The world has convinced mums they’re failing unless their home looks staged, their child behaves perfectly, and they can smile through exhaustion.
Your worth has nothing to do with how your motherhood looks and everything to do with how it feels.
We’re done with that.
If you’re craving a motherhood that feels calmer, simpler, safer, and more aligned with your truth you’re in the right space.
Follow along and join The Calm Mother Code Collective to break cycles, quiet the noise, and start mothering from your nervous system, not from pressure.
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