31/12/2024
In our conversations with our clients recently, we’ve noticed that many people are concerned with what others think, whether that is family, friends or strangers on the street. We get it, it is hard to block out the noise and it seems that whether you're breastfeeding, pumping, formula-feeding, combination-feeding, or weaning, every parent faces judgement about how they choose to nourish their baby. We want you to remember that it is - Your baby, your choice.
But we also understand that navigating these judgments can feel overwhelming.
Here are some tips to help you stay confident and supported:
1️⃣ Trust Your Instincts
You know your baby better than anyone. Feeding choices are deeply personal and should align with what works best for your family, health, and circumstances.
2️⃣ Arm Yourself with Information
Understanding your feeding method helps build confidence. If you’re breastfeeding, know the benefits and challenges. If you’re formula-feeding, know it’s a safe and nutritious choice. Education is empowerment.
3️⃣ Set Boundaries
When unsolicited advice or criticism comes your way, practice polite yet firm responses like:
“Thank you for your input, but this is what works best for us.”
“We’ve made this decision based on what’s right for our family.”
4️⃣ Build Your Village
Surround yourself with supportive people—whether it’s friends, family, or professionals like IBCLCs. Online communities and local parenting groups can also be a judgment-free zone.
5️⃣ Remember: Perfect Doesn’t Exist
There is no "one-size-fits-all" approach to feeding. As long as your baby is loved and fed, you’re doing an amazing job.
6️⃣ Focus on the Positive
Redirect your energy towards the joy of watching your baby grow and thrive. Your bond is built through love, not just how you feed them.
If you are still left wondering if you are doing the right thing or need some additional support - we are here for you. Head to the link in our bio to book an appointment https://www.babybonding.com.au/
👉 Have you faced societal judgment about your feeding choices? Share your story below—we’re here to support you!