01/08/2024
Postpartum is a roller-coaster of emotions and changes. These words are so useful for opening up important conversations pre and post birth. It's helpful to have open communication with your loved ones about the supports (and space) you may need. Take it slow and gently to rest your body and adjust to the tasks of mothering a newborn. You won't regret spending these precious days healing and bonding with your beautiful baby. Check out COPE for mental health information and support in pregnancy and postpartum.
Most people find the first six to eight weeks to be the hardest with a new born baby. And while people may not openly discuss many of the challenges in these early weeks of parenthood (if at all), there are a number of common hurdles you may face at this time.
The greatest challenges commonly experienced by parents in their first weeks include:
~ Recovering from birth. This is particularly challenging if birth has been traumatic or your were highly dissatisfied with the quality of care you received.
~ Breastfeeding and bottle feeding. Feeding your baby may come easily to you. Or, it may be yet another challenge, and different to what you expected or hoped for.
~ Lack of sleep. This can greatly affect your mood, energy, patience and ability to think clearly.
~ Feeling highly emotional. This can be compounded by lack of sleep and feeling that things are out of control.
~ Coping with an unsettled baby. Babies all come with unique temperaments which can bring additional demands on your patience and feelings towards your baby.
~ Bonding with your baby For many reasons, it may take longer than you expected to develop a connection with your baby.
~ Body image. Pregnancy and birth can bring possible changes to the way women may look and feel physically. This in turn can impact on our self-esteem and body image.
~ Managing priorities. Finding time for everything whilst also meeting the needs of your baby might mean that you need to let some things go for a while.
~ Managing advice from others. Endless newborn and parenting advice can leave you questioning yourself and your capabilities. Trust yourself as the expert on your baby.
~ Relationship dynamics with your partner. These are also constantly changing as you begin to adjust and accommodate life with your new arrival.
~ Relationship dynamics with your family. Not only are your expectations of parenthood likely to be adjusting, but so too are those of family and friends. As part of this transition, you will all begin to see where and how everyone fits into the new picture.
Visit our site to learn more! https://www.cope.org.au
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