13/11/2021
Normalize Birth to your children.
It’s the most powerful and impactful thing you can do.
In this house, birth is just a normal ordinary thing we do 🤣
The morning I went into labor, I started having surges right before they left for school. My mom drove them down and took Tatum with her so that I could just rest. I didn’t tell anyone right away what I was feeling because I’d had so many false alarms.
But this day they were different. I told my mom to not rush back up here with Tatum because I felt like today was the day and I’d want her to pick the girls up from school again and bring them back to be here.
I was really enjoying the peace and quiet at first so they didn’t come home until lunchtime. We still had hours before little Beckett would make his entrance, but I wanted their presence in the home.
Tatum, a normal typical 2 year old boy started getting tired and a little crazy, and it was a bit much for me, so he took a nap. I’m so grateful I had my mom and sister helping Jono with the kids, keeping them occupied when they were bored and feeding them.
They were watching TV as we entered the evening and I went into transition. I remember telling my family to get the kids over because I was so close, but it was still a little longer than I thought. They went back to watching tv, like it was a non-event until things really shifted and his head was descending.
From them seeing him be born, me pulling him out of the water, to me birthing the placenta in the shower, and them helping to burn the cord, they were there for all of it. Beautiful, messy, bloody, incredible. To them, this is just what you do when you’re having a baby.
And they will grow up without fears or trauma surrounding birth.
If I don’t do anything else right, I know I’ve at least instilled a sense of empowerment in them for when that day comes for them!
And hopefully one day, I’ll get to be part of their day too 🤍
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