27/05/2026
LISTENING is the #1 skill every entrepreneur needs to thrive—and almost never practices
Ross Judd calls it the ultimate litmus test - Listening.
"If I had a dollar for everyone who's said 'I need to listen more to my family, to my team' - I'd be a lot better off."
We all know we should listen. We all say we're going to.
And then? We don't.
Here's what happens instead:
We wait for our turn to talk. We formulate responses while they're still speaking. We assume we know what they're going to say.
We're physically present but mentally elsewhere.
Ross's insight:
"Stop and really listen. Really understand what that person's saying. And you'll save yourself so much heartache, time, and stress."
Why?
Because you'll suddenly realise - oh, they're saying the same thing as me. They want the same thing. They're not trying to undermine me at all.
Most conflict comes from not listening.
Not because people want different things. Because we're not actually hearing each other.
This is foundation-level work
Listening isn't a soft skill. It's the skill that determines the quality of every relationship - professional and personal.
And it starts with regulating your own nervous system enough to actually be present.
When you're in survival mode, you can't listen. You're scanning for threats, formulating defences, protecting yourself.
Real listening requires a calm nervous system.
The Foundations course teaches you how to build that calm - so listening becomes natural, not forced.
Listen to Ross's full conversation on the podcast :headphones: https://open.spotify.com/show/3bu07WcTq6VDbzTlK197zw
Read the BLOG:
https://www.amandacampbell.com.au/blog/ross-judd-leadership-resilience-listening
Book a free clarity call with Amanda: https://www.bendlikebamboo.com/service-booking-clarity-call