27/01/2026
Trauma is not always loud. Sometimes it is efficiency.
Many people carry stress responses that look like competence. Staying busy, going numb, zoning out, holding it together. Psychology recognises these as protective adaptations, ways the nervous system reduces overwhelm when feeling is too much. Here is the confronting truth. Not all trauma shows up as memories. Some of it shows up as patterns you were praised for. Healing begins when we stop pathologising the response and start understanding the protection underneath. If you relate to this, you are not broken. Your system learned how to survive.
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