06/03/2026
To the men saying ladies - who don't settle for undateable guys - will end their days lonely and alone with cats... Or have chosen the cat or bear... May I introduce the Binturong, both and neither bear and cat.
I am not sure what's not to love about the Binturong, when I met one he smelt like popcorn for starters. He happily sat around my shoulder, with his tail wrapped around me, for quite some time. And I was in no way lonely while that bushy tailed weird little wonder of fur was with me. In fact I felt peace, joy, curiosity, and didnโt at all think about men's opinions of me. The Binturong exuded a sense of feeling very comfortable in his own energy, approachable, unphased, not remotely egotistical, and just... kind of grounded. He also kind of chuckled, apparently because he was relaxed with me. Laughing at oneself is something may be the Binturong can teach dudes who aggressively tell women how to be. May be these men would be happier if like the Binturong, they smiled and felt more, and postured less.
To these men, who reject women who've already rejected you, your primary competition after a woman's solitude is a cat ( or, dependent on which country, may be a Binturong). A cat requires its p**p scooped daily... so, that's your primary competition.
If, however, like the Binturong, you learn to be confident in your own skin, and you start gratefully celebrating what is going well in your life ... and what makes you happy, your mind will shift in a better direction. If you start celebrating the happiness and success of others, your opportunities will expand even more, just as your heart does.
And ... If you aren't supporting policies, podcasts, ideas, and outcomes that threaten women's rights, safety, health, freedom, money and vote, you are doing the absolute bare minimum... But in today's dating pool that's rare, so you'lll be already stepping ahead of the guys that completely repel women.
And, if you start listening to and becoming an ally for women... Wow! ... May be, just may be, you'll find a relationship. Don't be a
Lots of love
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Jacquelene
POL