25/11/2025
Mismatched Libido in Relationships
Sexual desire naturally fluctuates over time, but for some couples, a significant difference in libido can become a source of frustration, tension, and emotional distance.
Differences in sexual desire can arise from a variety of factors, including:
💥 Biological Factors
Hormonal changes, medications, or health conditions can affect libido.
💥 Stress and Fatigue
Life’s demands, work, parenting, or personal stress, can reduce sexual desire for one partner.
💥 Emotional Connection
Emotional intimacy and relationship satisfaction are closely linked to sexual desire. A lack of connection can decrease libido.
💥 Individual Differences
Personal temperament, past experiences, and cultural or religious beliefs can influence sexual needs.
Couples therapy provides a safe, non-judgmental space to explore mismatched libido. A therapist can help:
💙 Facilitate honest communication about sexual needs and expectations
💙 Address underlying emotional or relational factors affecting desire
💙 Develop practical strategies to enhance intimacy without pressure
💙 Strengthen emotional connection, which can naturally support sexual closeness
If you and your partner are experiencing challenges related to mismatched libido, Couples Therapy Melbourne can help. Our experienced therapists guide couples in navigating sensitive topics, improving communication, and rebuilding intimacy.
📞 Contact us today to take the first step toward a more connected and fulfilling relationship.