04/08/2022
It’s world breastfeeding week. This is a topic close to my heart (pun intended 😉) both professionally and personally.
Breastfeeding never came easily to me. My feeding journeys all involved months of ni**le trauma, low supply, triple feeding, medication, lactation consultant support, expressing, supply line feeding, bottle washing and sooooo much fenugreek I could be smelt from 3 suburbs away🙈
What have I learnt?
It’s uncommon for things to just ‘click’ in those early days. If it does, great! But if not, you are absolutely not alone. Likewise, your experience in the first days/weeks is often not reflective of what things will be like further down the track.
The advice/opinions you are given in the early days by well-meaning midwives, family and friends can be confusing. Just when you think you have it sorted someone else comes in and suggests you change! I found it helpful to shift my perspective from one of frustration (“Everyone is telling my something different!” to one of learning (“This just shows there is no one “right” way”).
Similarly, if you see a lactation consultant (LC) and they aren’t the right fit for you, try another LC. There are many approaches and styles and it can take time to find the right support.
Any cookies that you EVER bake should be clearly labelled Lactation Cookies, regardless of if you are breastfeeding. This is a highly effective guarantee of a good cookie supply just for you 🫢
Though we may agonise over feeding our baby, nobody will ask your 10 year old if they were breastfed. In fact, my 10 year old son is mortified that this was once how he received nutrition 😂
When in the trenches, sometimes establishing an end point/end date can be helpful. Such as “if I feel this isn’t working for us by the time, I give us permission to stop”.
Above all, please be KIND to yourselves. While the early days and weeks are hard for most, if the challenges of breastfeeding are preventing you from enjoying your baby on an ongoing basis it may be worth taking a step back and reflecting on whether this is working for you and baby.