Wellbusi

14/05/2026

Road tripping with Ruby dog ❤️ Central coast to Gunning to Mansfield to Bright and Albury. Wagga Wagga and a couple of wee stops then Newcastle. Podcasts, fresh air, road trip playlist and some pretty bad singing made it even better. Felt like going to the high country vic and catching up with mates so I did. Highly recommend a road trip! Any ideas for my best one? Please message me 🙏 thank you and good night 😴

08/05/2026

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20/04/2026

Lessons In Love
What Did I Miss? (The one about the things I miss about being in a relationship)

There are moments when you sit in it. In that silence. You know the one.

No messages.
No plans.
No “thinking of you.”

And it can feel like something’s missing...
https://jodiecoall.substack.com/p/lessons-in-love

16/04/2026

You don’t stay because it’s right. ✅
You stay because it’s familiar… and you’re hoping familiar will finally feel different.

But here’s the truth…

You’re not confused.
You’re just trying to make something work that already showed you it won’t.

And the more you force it…
the more you lose yourself trying to fix what was never aligned.

Because if you have to force it to work,
you’re not building a relationship…
you’re managing a misalignment.

Because it’s not just about breaking up with someone…
it’s about breaking up with the patterns, the behaviours,
and the relationships that no longer serve you.

This is where you move from confusion to clarity…
from uncertainty to certainty…
from inconsistency to consistency…
from disconnection to real connection…
and into true compatibility.

You don’t have to stay in the in-between.
But you do have to choose your way out of it.

You’re one honest conversation away…
from everything changing.

Message me ‘stuck’ and I’ll send you my Do I Stay Or Do I Go Book. 📕

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lovelife

16/04/2026

...Because this is what I’ve learned:

You don’t get the relationship you want by holding onto the one that isn’t it.

Even if it’s comfortable.
Even if it still feels good sometimes.

I’m not writing this because I have it all figured out.

I’m writing it because I’ve been in it.

In the awareness.
In the pull.
In the choice.

And maybe that’s the most honest place to be. Right here, asking:

‘What would it look like to fully choose myself… even when it means letting go of something that still feels familiar?’

The In-Between: The things that feel good, but cost you way too much.

08/04/2026

The Chemistry Myth: Why Expecting Instant Sparks Is Ruining Modern Dating

By Jodie Coall

Swipe. Match. Meet.

Evaluate.

Within the first ten minutes of a date many people silently ask themselves one question:

The Chemistry Myth: Why Expecting Instant Sparks Is Ruining Modern Dating By Jodie Coall Swipe. Match. Meet. Evaluate. Within the first ten minutes of a date many people silently ask themselves one question: “Do I feel chemistry?” If the answer isn’t an immediate yes, they mentally move on. Bu...