Bridge to Birth

Bridge to Birth Doula support, Hypnobabies childbirth hypnosis, & placenta encapsulation in south east Melbourne

07/12/2023

The language we use, the words we say & think & hear, shape our world in so many ways.

What could our pregnancy & birth be, if we chose to encompass them with positive thoughts & words? What could parenthood & life in general be? πŸ₯°

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Prodromal birthing, otherwise known as "false labour" or pre-labour, can be a curse or a blessing, depending on how you ...
23/10/2022

Prodromal birthing, otherwise known as "false labour" or pre-labour, can be a curse or a blessing, depending on how you approach it. 🀰🏻

When a mama starts having birthing sensations, that go on for hours & that neither rest nor activity relieves, it of course leads to the feeling "is this my birthing time??" 😍 And when they don't grow longer, stronger & closer together, & when eventually they stop, it can create feelings of confusion, frustration, concern, impatience! πŸ˜”

For some prodromal birthing continues cyclically for days, which can feel draining, especially if they happen overnight. 😴πŸ₯± For others it comes once for hours and then nothing, leaving mama feeling stuck in limbo: expecting her true birth to start any moment. No matter how you experience it, it can feel disheartening. ❀️

But there's a lot of positive things about prodromal birthing to focus on! Prodomal birthing sensations can:

🏡 Ripen your cervix. Your cervix is likely dilating & effacing, which does not occur with Braxton Hicks

🏡 Strengthen your uterus. Your uterus is exercising, a great warm up for the big day!

🏡 Reduce your early birthing time. Because your uterus & cervix have already gained ground, you may reach your active birthing time more quickly when your true birthing begins. Every prodromal birthing experience may be taking a mile or two off the final marathon!

🏡 Encourages baby to move into an optimal birthing position. Prodromal birthing may be the body helping move a baby out of (for example) breech position. To help a baby further, families might like looking at Spinning Babies (1)

🏡 Shine a light on emotions that need clearing for a smoother birthing experience. Prodromal birthing may mean there are feelings that need to be released, which can be achieved through meditation, journalling, fear clearing, hypnosis or simply talking it through with someone.

🏡 Remind you to slow down. Sometimes birth can come as a surprise that a family doesn't feel ready for: they're still working on their To Do List, or not resting or exercising etc. as much as they want to before the Big Day. A Prodromal birthing can be a wonderful practice run, to remind us what is important to prioritise right now!

🏡 Help you practice your mindfulness, which is a great birthing tool! Notice what thoughts are in your mind during & after your prodromal birthing time. Mentally examine your body, and how it is responding to those thoughts. What feelings do the thoughts raise? Take a deep breathe, & affirm to yourself to let go of any thoughts or feelings that do not serve you. Soften your body, & if you haven't already, start practicing mindfulness daily (2)

Prodromal birthing is a sign that baby is almost ready, & your body is almost there! Be patient, & enjoy these last few days or weeks of your pregnancy as much as you can. This stage of motherhood for this baby will be over soon, & wont come again. ❀️

1. https://www.spinningbabies.com/pregnancy-birth/techniques/three-ways-to-body-balance/
2. https://www.emmaand3.com/7-ways-to-practice-mindfulness-during-pregnancy/

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🏡 Lotus Births 🏡As a placenta encapsulator, you might think I could be a little bit biased when it comes to Lotus Births...
04/10/2022

🏡 Lotus Births 🏡

As a placenta encapsulator, you might think I could be a little bit biased when it comes to Lotus Births. 😊 I encourage consuming the placenta, as is done throughout the animal kingdom, to gain all the health benefits & to provide support while crossing the hormonal threshold of the post-partum.

I also know how beautiful the philosophy of the Lotus Birth is πŸ’«. Your placenta was your baby's first "mother": a visible, tangible presence who gave your baby life through the umbilical cord... & by Lotus birthing, each baby can choose when they are ready to fully let go to their previous life🀰🏻 & embrace 🀱 their life earth-side. Lotus birthing helps encourage a slow pace in the first days after giving birth, & privacy. It's beautiful to witness. πŸ₯°

I'm a doula too, so I fully support & assist with Lotus Birth care. 🌳 & personally I love the ritual of salting and wrapping the placenta: it is just as sacred & as much an honour as encapsulation is. ❀️

To make an informed choice for your placenta's birth plan, here are some points to consider:

🏡 Lotus birthing requires your placenta to be washed, dried, salted, cared for at least daily for some time, and carried (e.g. in a cloth bag or lined bamboo steamer). This means it may not be a good choice for anyone who:

πŸ’  Doesn't have solid physical support, e.g. single mothers, or families where the other parent works long hours.

πŸ’  Has a busy lifestyle, e.g. you're intending to continue school drop off's or cooking meals straight away.

🏡 If Lotus Birth was something you felt drawn to, but it doesnt feel a perfect fit, you may like to:

🌳 Have a partial Lotus birthing. This can mean separating the placenta into two (one for Lotus, one for encapsulating). Or it can mean keeping the cord attached for an extended time (hours or days), and cut it at a time that feels right.

🌳 Be present with your baby when the cord is cut. This means not looking at it being cut - instead look at your baby's face, eye gaze if her eyes are open, & send her love and compassion as the cord is cut. "I know, I'm here, I'll look after you now".

🏡 If wanting to know more about how to Lotus Birth, I'm always happy to share what I know, & there are plenty of online resources, such as:
https://placentaremediesnetwork.org/your-placenta/lotus-birth/ ❀️

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