23/12/2025
Christmas is often tough due to family sh*t and sometimes we inadvertently make it even worse unless we actively set out to be super kind to ourselves. Do you ever notice yourself saying things like …
"Things aren't really that bad. I should be more grateful. Others have got it way worse than I have."
If things are tough and you feel like s**t, let yourself feel like s**t! 💩
These feelings are valid and playing them down and not allowing yourself to feel that way without feeling ashamed will have a far worse impact on your mental health.
You’re gaslighting yourself, probably because you’ve been treated this way by others a lot over the years.
You can validate your own feelings. You don’t have to wait for someone else to. 💛💙 It’ll most likely feel weird at first, but you’ll get used to it over time.
ADHD coaching is a great place to start to change these kinds of mental habits, so if you’d like to find out more about it, let's have a catch-up.
Shedule a chat here: https://lilowellnessbookings.as.me/?appointmentType=28803202
Have a lovely Festive Season my lovelies!!! 🌲🙌🏼
Susie xx