09/12/2025
Most people don’t realise their nervous system has been climbing the Polyvagal ladder all day — until the moment everything feels too loud, too fast, or too much.
The trick is not waiting until you’re overwhelmed.
It’s learning how to check in early and redirect your physiology before it runs away from you.
A simple 10-second nervous system check-in can literally change the direction of your day:
• Notice your body
• Notice your breath
• Notice your “behaviour clues” (e.g., walking like you’re late when you’re not)
• Choose one sensory anchor
• Extend your exhale
This is not mindset work.
This is not “just relax.”
This is bottom-up regulation — speaking directly to the vagus nerve so the rest of your system can settle.
Your body listens to you long before your thoughts do.
And the beauty of this?
Your children feel the shift too.
They regulate from your state, not your instructions.
Vinnie just happens to demonstrate these skills while sitting in full meditation pose next to essential oils — but the science is the same.
A tiny check-in.
A slow exhale.
And suddenly the whole room softens.
I hope this helps you all get through this crazy season.
Tahlia x