03/03/2026
Some lesson's I've learnt recently.
The last couple of months have been interesting as stated in my post a couple of days ago I have been in a space of contemplation. Some more layers have shown themselves since then.
Lessons learnt:
1. I like stability when I invest in a container. Even if changes occur, I would like forewarning to manage that. I get that things change but then I'm expected to change with them and not in my own timing which I kind of find hypocritical. I guess there's an element of how you go about informing change that needs to be considered on your participants. I believe that it's possible to have change/experimentation inherent within your package but making that clear from the get-go means everyone has a core understanding that that will happen. They can then make an informed choice as to whether they participate or not.
2. I will be unlikely to invest in containers that have a 12-month commitment. I recognise that I change and therefor my attraction to your container is also likely to change (manifesting generator). So, an opt out at any time options works for me better than a 12-month commitment. This is a new understanding for me; the last three 12-month containers I've been in I have probably realised quite early that if I had the option, I would have cancelled the membership. Sometimes you don't know until you're in a container that it isn't right for you. I have made two of them work for me the other I just acknowledged was an expensive lesson. I honour my commitments but for future knowledge an opt out option is essential for me. Interestingly enough those containers that offer an opt out are the ones that I am happiest in and have no intention of opting out of.
3. Learning more about the person I invest in has also been clear for me to dive deeper into what they stand for and whether I truly align when it comes to values and how they do business. I unfortunately am learning not to trust ads from my recent experiences, what looks glossy on top is often messy underneath. I appreciate an offer that has a get to know you session/trial to work out whether it's a good fit or not - this is for both people's benefit I believe.
